dear Creative Mind, it's early for you to post but this is indicative of how you are feeling, but thank you so much for giving us the opportunity.
I said to my doctor last week that he has so many patients who come and see him, all complaining about their own ailments, maybe some serious and maybe some being only hypochondriac, and please I'm not referring to anyone here, so I said with all these problems who do you talk to, and he said no one, so I asked him how he was going, as he and I often have a joke together, so we will a chat on many other different topics.
He does say when he sees me waiting 'oh no not you again can't I see you next year' only being jovial.
I would think that people coming to have their hair done by you, could think that you are the person in control, which would mean that they feel comfortable disclosing their problems to you, and may feel embarrassed asking you.
When I see my psychologist I first of all ask how he has been going, but there would be a limited amount of people who would do this, because he is the man in charge, and yes he is, but it shouldn't stop the patient asking how they are going.
Imagine a psychologist seeing 10 patients a day, well no different to what happens with you, everyone telling them of their own traumas, and I don't mean any harm to those who do visit a psychologist, I'm just saying.
No one who doesn't pay any attention to how you are going in your very heavy lifestyle, doesn't appreciate how you are feeling and how was your day is in denial.
I do know that if by any chance you could interrupt their story, they will only go back to their own story, irrespective of what you had to say about yourself.
I know how you are feeling and would love to hear more of YOUR story, so please post again.
L Geoff. x
