I fell sad when Mother’s Day comes around

[Jasmine_R]

I hate when Mother’s Day comes it makes me sad this day cos I don’t have a mum I’m close two at all cos I don’t speak or see my real mum at all and when I see people and their post on happy mothers days and I see people video of them and their mums just makes me sad 😔 cos I wish I had that I wish I could have a nice mum I just wanted to get this of my chest

[white knight]

Hi, welcome

You are not alone with this problem. Many people’s mum is deceased, estranged or not close to them. I feel the same when I see brothers together and miss my only brother that suicided in 1978 at 26yo.

But I have a loving sister and some don’t have a sibling at all.

So as crass as this sounds try to celebrate /appreciate what you have and not dwell on what you haven’t.

I hope that makes sense

repost anytime

TonyWK

[blondguy]

Hello Jasmine R

It would be difficult (and heartbreaking) on mothers day for you. Can I ask if you have the ability to contact your mum on mothers day? I understand this would be very hard to do with your own circumstances

I feel your pain as there are many people in the same sad situation too

we are here and listening Jasmine R

my kind thoughts

Paul

[Jasmine_R]

Hi Paul no I have no way iv getting in touch with her I don’t even no wear she lives Iv been a foster child my hole life and iv never really had contact with my real parents now I live on my own I just wish I could of had a mum and dad I could be close two like I see with other people that’s all just gets two me at this time y know I’m sure once Mother’s days over I get over it

[Jasmine_R]

Thanks for your reply tony wk but yes I do come from a lot of sis and what not but to save my life I hat two cut my sis and what not at of my life because they didn’t treat me right and it was bad for my heath so I had no choice but to cut most of my sis and what not out of my life so I have no family members that I talk to or am close two or iv even see in years so I’m alone I have no one Mother’s Day sucks Christmas sucks birthdays sucks I just hate it when this things come up

[blondguy]

Hi Jasmine R

Im sorry Jasmine...Of course this time year would be sad for you being without even knowing your birth mum..I wasnt aware when I replied to you...Can I ask if you have children Jasmine? (only if thats okay of course!)

You are amazing for having the strength to post Jasmine R

my kind thoughts and respect

Paul

[Jasmine_R]

No I have no kids I’m single I have a lot of trust issues I don’t think I ever have kids my self

[blondguy]

Hey Jasmine

not being able to wish your mum 'happy mothers day' would be painful for anyone....especially for yourself

my mum is nearly 90 and a 'foster child' too....mum has mentioned the same Jasmine....I dont know anything about her mum (my grandma) as she doesnt either....It is very difficult

Trust issues are very common on the forums too.....(me included)

you are not alone Jasmine

my kind thoughts

Paul

[Jasmine_R]

Thanks for the reply just being on hear has help me a lot and it dose help that their is other people on hear and what not that are like me or go through same stuff as me that dose help me two know I’m not alone it really dose help so thank y 👍 it’s hard for me to talking about what’s on my mind it’s not easy for me out all but I fell safe on hear to let my fells out and it’s been good for me to get things of my chest i never knew my grandma she die I never got two no her