Desperate n struggling

Kwee_Eng
Community Member
Hi, I m new to this site. I have been on antidepressants since 20.1.20. I struggle everyday, intensity of symptoms varies. Does anyone out there can identify with how difficult it is mentally, emotionally n physically. At times, I just dont know how to manage the symptoms n look beyond to better days.
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Hi Kwee Eng,

Sorry to hear the medication isn't working as effectively as you hoped it would.

I hear of people going through many different types of antidepressants until they find the one suited to them.

You would think it would work more effectively since you increased the dosage but that doesn't seem to be the case.

I'm afraid you might have to go back to the doctor and let he/ she know and work out what to do from there.

Guest_4643
Community Member

Hey Kwee Eng.

It's normal for all antidepressants and mental health meds to take time, they don't work straight away regardless of what they are and the dosages. All of them take a month or so to work, like the Pill (I'm on both).

It's also normal to have some side effects, but don't be scared, not everyone will get side effects, some might but they won't be bad. If they are, see a GP ASAP. But normally it's just nausea for a week or so, but it's different for everyone of course.

Yes it's normal to feel like they're not working too and it's unsure to tell but just be patient I suppose, as hard as it is. It's hard to tell, I know. I guess you'll have to speak to your GP and Psychiatrist (if you have one) about your concerns because they'll be more help but I hope monkey_magic and I can assist you.

I hope you feel better, take care and all the best with the meds. Just remember, your brain is going through changes, the meds are there to make you feel better, trying to produce the chemicals in your brain such as Serotonin (the "happy" chemical) in your brain, etc. But some meds also work for Dopamine, Noradrenaline, etc. which are similar chemicals. This is what they do, so your brain is getting used to that and that's normal, it's normal to feel up and down.

Best of luck, we're here for you.

Tayla x

Thank you Tayla for yr reply. Much appreciated. Is it a normal to feel fear of not being able to come out of my depression, fear of being in this unpleasant, scary situation?? I like to know if its a common feeling. Thanks

Hey Kwee Eng, you're more than welcome for the reply, I'm glad you appreciate it.

Yes it is a common feeling, you're not alone there. My Psychiatrist said to me, "mental health and therapy is like soup - there's lots of ingredients", meaning it's not an easy road but you'll get there eventually, it takes time and that's okay, it's nothing to be ashamed of. It's courageous to seek help, whether it's a Psychiatrist, Psychologist, calling 000 or speaking to Beyond Blue, Lifeline, any of those. It's all help and it's all nothing to be ashamed of.

I like that quote my Psychiatrist said, it's stuck with me, because I agree. And different things work for different people. Do you have any coping mechanisms or things you like doing? I can try to give you some suggestions if you like? Up to you.

Take care, I'm here if you need me. I hope you're doing okay.

Love and hugs,

Tayla x