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My 21st

startingnew
Community Member

Hi everyone
so mums just come home yesterday and she said what do you want to do on saturday? i said im not sure but will have a think about it.
she said do i want to have a big get together with all the family and i can invite friends (got none of those) but i really dont see my family that much and when i do they only want to see my pop.

ive arranged a hotel for a night on the sunday afterwards but mum wants to celebrate on my actual 21st which is this saturday

im torn as i know shes trying to help but i really dont want a major thing despite it suppose to be a big deal

any ideas?

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startingnew
Community Member

Thank you everyone for celebrating my 21st with me and all the birthday wishes.

Im pretty knackered now so heading to bed. Its 1030 here.

Thank you again xoxoxo

Hey Little Wings,

Thank you for letting us help you celebrate your special day.

It was an absolute honour...

Yes, it was a big day indeed for you...I hope you get some rest.

Much love and more big sis hugs than you can handle.

Pepper xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo🦋🤗❤️

Heheheh how’s the morning after? 😎😎😎

Mmmmm champagne .... was it a good drop?

none of that here... it’s coffee here ....

v.

🤗🤗🤗😉😉😉😉

Thanks Pepper xoxo i need those this morning

Lol velv. The morning after is fine (except my night was filled with nightmares) but if i go off here i dont think ill be getting up today haha

Thank you all for celebrating with me

Velv- I like the sound of caffeine lol

Butter Wings (lol...thank your nan for that one)- ❤️❤️❤️

Pepper xoxoxoxoxo

i have 2 strong ones under my belt ... and off to gym I go!

💪🏻💪🏻

Lol shes probably sleeping in. Party animal she is Peps ❤

Velvz i dont drink coffee but its starting to sound really good!

Yeah, that party animal needs her beauty sleep lol ❤️

And I’m sorry, I can’t get over “Butter Wings”....think your nan got a bit overexcited when I handed her the butter when we were baking your virtual cake...

I told her to grease the pan and not your wings?!

Lol 😂

Pepper xoxo

Hahahaha lol no wonder my wings are so slippery! How on earth am i going to get them off my wings!!??

But i do love my butterfly cake! Thank you very much!

Haha Sez i can see hanging upside down in a weird position on my couch! She might get water ballooned soon! You and any other early risers can help too!

OMG!!

I had to peel those pants off and had blisters on my poor feet from dancing. Butter all over my hands and lovely cotton top - now in the bin. ALL worth it though!

21st birthdays are a great excuse for family reunions. I had 50 at mine and only 4 friends. It was a beautiful night to remember because of people I hadn't seen since I was little. I hope it was like this for you too.

I do hope you find some semblance of joy that remains as a reminder of 'good things happen to good people'. Your mum's one of them for giving this wonderful time to you. Even if the drama that preceded it was a little too much.

You'll keep this night in your memory forever I can assure you. Happy Birthday young lovely. You're in my thoughts...

Nan Sez xoxoxox