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My 21st

startingnew
Community Member

Hi everyone
so mums just come home yesterday and she said what do you want to do on saturday? i said im not sure but will have a think about it.
she said do i want to have a big get together with all the family and i can invite friends (got none of those) but i really dont see my family that much and when i do they only want to see my pop.

ive arranged a hotel for a night on the sunday afterwards but mum wants to celebrate on my actual 21st which is this saturday

im torn as i know shes trying to help but i really dont want a major thing despite it suppose to be a big deal

any ideas?

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Hey SN

Happy 21st - so long ago for me too and I was already married!

Have a great day - 😊

🎉💃🏿🌹🌈🎂

Happy birthday SN,

Enjoy your 21st beautiful gal,

Hip hip horaaaayyy to you!!!

Lots of love xox

happy happy birthday sn!!

21 already, youre getting old 😉

hope you enjoy your lunch with family and when you get back we will keep the celebrations going!

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Dear SN,

May you have a good birthday today.. And ooh you are 21.

love Shell

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startingnew
Community Member

Hey guys just another quick check in! Ive had 2 alcoholic beverages. Never ever do i drink. Going out for dinner too so might have another one or 2.

Being very naughty today! And i broke my healthy eating streak! Whoops! Today doesn't count 😉

Thank you everyone for birthday wishes will be back later on tonight

Xoxoxo

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Sounds like you are enjoying yourself.

Great stuff, you go girl!

xxx

Just Sara
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

PAR-TEH!!!!!

I'm the first on the dance floor SN. Wearing metallic light emerald green spandex skinny pants, (size 10 of course. yeah wha-eva!) On top it's a sleeveless drop shouldered pure white cotton body hugging button up mid-drift. Hair's up in a pony tail with black shiny peyton leather stiletto's. (Worn in of course to dance the night away)

Girls and guys...we surround SN in a circle holding hands and dance around her while the dj plays 'La Vida Loca' by Ricky Martin!!! She dances in front of us all as we cheer!!! Woo-Hooooo...Parrrr-teh!!!!

Awe...I miss dancing. Whoop it up Butter Wings!!!

startingnew
Community Member

Hello my dear BB family.


We were going to go out for dinner but we are all too full to go out!


The small celebration turned out to be over 30 people- half of which I havent seen in bloody yrs and probably wont again lol. But it went from 12 until 3 and boy was it tiring!
Had a few dramas through the day, stupid ptsd but im ok now. Just abit tired
My uncle come down from his house which is about 3 hrs away. Hes going back home tonight but has spent most of the day with us.
Instead of going out to dinner we ended up going for a walk on the beach, I found some very unusal shells and it reminded me of the friends I have here. Each of my shells (while I only collected 10, I think I wouldve needed the entire beach for each member!!) but they are there to remind when that when things get tough I have my friends here who I can talk to and who care. Each shell is different which represents the uniqueness of each person I meet and for that I appreciate.


Right so ive had a few drinks today, I think 2 is plenty! But I can imagine im drinking right here with you guys. Drinks on me!


Lol Sez I knew you were going to get up on the dance floor haha. Butter wings hey?

Also Peps from my other thread (im not ready to go back to there today) i did read it and i loved the msg you left for me there. im sure my wings look very pretty with all those flower decortations youve been making!

thank you to each and everyone of you for the birthday wishes, you have really made my day!

xoxoxoxoxox

thank you to

haha you know you had a good lunch when you cant eat any dinner!

that sounds lovely! and so nice to see lots of people you havent seen in a while, its nice to reconnect

you made it through the day! and had a really nice day (even with the few blips) which is something to be so proud and happy about 🙂
So did some of your friends come to the lunch as well?
yes sounds like a great idea, its always nice to have happy, fun memories to look back on and think about when times are tough.

Drinks on you? ill have you finest bottle of champagne then please 😉

hope the rest of your night is just as enjoyable

and happy birthday again!!

Hey Cee
thank you for the birthday wishes! The best bottle of champagne coming right up!
We hardly connected, they all came for the grog. Shame but truth. But the lucnh in general was really good, well worth it. No, I dont have friends which is a shame but again its the way it is and eventually I hope they fall into place. For now though im ok, tired and lots of flashbacks through triggers over the past hour or so but handling them slowly as they come.