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My 21st

startingnew
Community Member

Hi everyone
so mums just come home yesterday and she said what do you want to do on saturday? i said im not sure but will have a think about it.
she said do i want to have a big get together with all the family and i can invite friends (got none of those) but i really dont see my family that much and when i do they only want to see my pop.

ive arranged a hotel for a night on the sunday afterwards but mum wants to celebrate on my actual 21st which is this saturday

im torn as i know shes trying to help but i really dont want a major thing despite it suppose to be a big deal

any ideas?

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Happy 21st Birthday Butterfly Wings!!!

❤️🦋❤️🦋

Hopefully you get some time to yourself as I know you’re not exactly looking forward to all the guests/visitors.

Big, big hug and well wishes from me.

Love,

Pepper xoxoxoxoxoxo

Hi birthday girl, I'm new - Jaine. (It's pronounced Jane, but Janie's fine too)

I saw this topic and thought I'd drop in and introduce myself. I'm an oldie but a goodie. So many returns of the day Starting New. Nice name.

If I were to give you a gift, it would be a luxury weekend away at a resort spa in Byron Bay. Very exclusive where you might see a famous person or two or three. They're all drunks, but don't say it came from me ok?

I used to go there when my job got too much. So I do know you'll love it! In fact, why don't we all go? My treat! Peppermintback, you can come too. We'll sip champagne while lazing in the heated indoor pool and spa, then have our nails done.

Happy Birthday!

Hi Jane,

What’s this about a luxury resort?

lol. Champagne, manicures, pools and spa...okay, that’s it, I’m coming!

Butterfly Wings- thinking of you on your 21st and sending comfort to help you get through the day.

Pepper xoxoxoxoxoxo

Apologies Jaine...my bad for misspelling your name. Sorry about that.

Autocorrect struggles.

Pepper xoxo

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SN!!!

Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday dear SN, happy birthday to you...and many moreeeeeee. ;-D

21 today, 21 today, she's going for fish and chips, salt all over her finger tips. 21 today, 21 today!

Oh lovely sweet pea...beautiful Nanna hugs and kisses with cherries on top!

Neil Diamond couldn't have sung it better; "Girl...bom bom bom...you'll be a wom-an soon. Great song, look it up. It was in that movie 'Pulp Fiction'.

Love and many happy returns of the day beautiful, wonderful, amazeballs you!

I love you butter wings...:-)

Nan Sez xoxoxoxox

Starting New

Happy 21, I hope it is a great day, a great weekend and a great year.

I thought you were older (in a good way) as your posts are so wise and compassionate .

Enjoy being spoilt by your mum.

Quirky

Welcome Jaine , I like the idea of a luxury resort.

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hey SN,

Happy 21st Birthday beautiful girl.

cmf x

startingnew
Community Member

Oh my goodness!!

I umm dont know what to say!

I dont think a thank you is enough!

It doesnt matter how bad i thought today was going to be you guys really just made up for it. Im going to be ok today despite what my brain says. I only get 21 once so today is going to be a good day!

Im about to leave for the day but will be back on later for a proper msg!

Welcome Jaine! Also you must be a mind reader as tomorrow i a actually booked a hotel with a spa bath and luxury room!

Quriky thanks a few people have said that 🙂

Ok im being ushered out the door ill be baaaaacck!

❤❤❤❤

Also just to keep the party here rolling

Ie stuck up baloons and streamers and fairy lights.

We have a quiet corner with lots of fluffy pillows for those who find it overwhelming.

We have a dj with a dance floor for those party animals.

And anything else you want! Its on me!

As well as all the junk food you can imagine with of course healthy options. We have a butterfly fruit arrangement too!

Wish i could upload pics! Youll have to use your imagination

Ok ok im going now hehe

HHHAAAAAPPPYYYY BIIIRTHHDAYYY

WOOOOOOO

🙂🙂🙂🌈🌈🌈🌈🎉🎉🎉

21 Hey? Ahhhhh so long ago for me lol!!!!!!!

Heh... to paint a small canvass... mine was at my house with around 40 of this cities musos..

fun times 😂😂😂😂

be good. Have fun. Ahhh just have fun 😉😉😉😉