Emotions around adopting a second pet

[T-otts]

Hi, 

we have had a cat for over a year now and she is our world and we love her so much. We have been thinking of getting a friend for her as we are both at work during the day. We adopted another lil kitten yesterday and our cat isn’t a fan. I know it’s not even been a day so it will take time but I have been so emotional and crying non stop since coming home. I don’t want to have to rehome the new lil kitten. I just want to know if anyone else has felt like this. I don’t know if it’s regret or feeling guilty bringing in a new animal. Any advice would be amazing. Thanks 

[jaz28]

Hi T-otts,

I am sorry this is stressful for you. Your cat might just need some readjusting to a new friend, it is hard letting another strange animal into her territory. This article from the RSPCA might be able to help you: https://kb.rspca.org.au/knowledge-base/how-should-i-introduce-a-new-cat-or-kitten-to-my-existing-cat...

You cat is probably very territorial and needs more than a day to get used to a new cat in the house! The article says to gradually increase exposure time and keep them seperate for a while. Maybe try what the article says - or ask your family VET for advice before jumping to the worst conclusion. It is valid feeling guilty but i am sure your cat will adjust if you give her time 🙂

Jaz xx

[Croix]

Dear T-otts~

I think Jaz has given you good advice as patience and not overwhelming your existing cat will work, it is quite a common thing to add another cat/kitten to the household.

I remember a few years ago we only had one cat (called Nasty Cat wouldyoubelieve). As it was the only one it was top cat, ruled the roost, had it's favorite position on top of the heater (from which it could swipe at anyone passing), and its pick of food.

Then we rescued Sumo Cat (who was not exactly a kitten but quite young), and things did not start well. Nasty snarled as Sumo and then went and sulked. We kept them more or less separate with Nasty always eating first, and gradually allowed them more time together. Eventually Nasty stooped sulking and resumed position as top cat.

We did have to have separate litter trays for a while but eventuality they got on well and were company for each other. When Nasty passed away Sumo took over as top cat of course.

Croix