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I hope that you feel as though you can trust us. Geoff.
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Hey TackCape,
Welcome to the forums and thanks for reaching out.
I'm glad that you decided to join the forums; there's so many different people here and lots that you can talk to. Did you want to share a bit more about what's going on for you? You're in a safe space.
If you don't, that's cool too - you may just want to look around some of the forums or search key words about what topics you might like to read about.
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Hi TackCape,
Thanks for your post.
I appreciate you deciding to share what's going on for you and I hope that we can help you out a little bit. I'm sorry that you're struggling and Uni can be a difficult time for a lot of people.
How long have you been feeling this way? Have you talked to anyone about it?
Ultimately to help you manage feeling this way I think it would help to know the whys even though that's easier said than done sometimes. Often Uni's tend to have school counsellors and student support staff on site, which can be really helpful. You could possibly see them or even talk to your GP about it to better understand why this is happening.
Uni in itself can be pretty stressful and there's a lot of things that make it stressful; whether it's struggling to understand the content, meeting deadlines, social groups, writing exams and reports, fear of failure or maybe not being sure that this is the right course for you. Other times Uni can be stressful but just because the rest of our life is pretty stressful whether thats health, family, friends or anything else that's going on in your life right now. The more that you can pinpoint what it is about Uni that's overwhelming the easier it can get to try and manage it.
I'm really glad that you're being able to write song lyrics and poems. That can be a great way to express yourself especially if you're feeling so overwhelmed. Maybe there's something in what you've written that can help you understand why you might be struggling so much. Of course you don't have to share them with anyone; they can be such a personal thing - and anyway to express yourself in a creative outlet is such a good thing.
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Being at uni can be very stressful and as Romantic_thi has said there are counsellors,
Perhaps write down on a piece of paper what you are worried about so you can hand it over to the
The other point
People sometimes feel ashamed to be depressed and then feel guilty but you didn't choose
It might be easier to visit your doctor to start off with, and maybe you could google the 'K-10' test which will rate your level of depression and then tell your doctor what score you get. Geoff.
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Hey TackCape,
Thanks for your post.
It can be incredibly scary to open up to people, and I'm guessing since you haven't opened up to too many people you're probably feeling pretty alone in what you're experiencing. Whenever we open up we are never quite sure of how they might react, how they might think of you or even if we can 'pull ourselves together'.
What is it that scares you about opening up?
One thing that I've noticed from my own experiences is that friends can already kind of tell that you're struggling by the way you talk and act; there are often little changes in behaviour that we don't even notice we're showing like being withdrawn or just slumping our shoulders. So telling them might not even be a surprise.
How long have you known your friends? Are you close with them?
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