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i need help.

Abigail_1274
Community Member
idk what to do at the moment, my family expects me to be perfect and I can’t be, I try help mom out as much as I can she works all the time and I just wish we could spend more time with us but we need the money dad doesn’t do anything but sit on he’s butt, school is hard for me so much drama everyone does drugs and it’s all in my face 24/7, everyone expects me to be there for them I lisen to there shit but they act like they don’t give a 💩, I just wanna be a little girl again that was easy.
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MsPurple
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

HI Abigail and welcome to the forums

It can be hard when we put so much pressure on ourselves to be perfect. Unfortunately my anxiety and perfectionist nature will never say I am good enough or 'perfect' enough. Have you talked to your mum and dad about how you feel, how you feel like you have so much expected of you. Have you been more stress out of late?

There is a really good youth mental health service across Australia. They have centres as well as an online service. We are great here on the forums here however we don't have immediate responses. See if you think it will be helpful www.headspace.org.au I have been to two of their centres and the staff were amazing and they really helped me through a tough time

I have struggled with anxiety since I was young. I know what it's like to feel pressure high expectations. I am happy to chat if you need 🙂