I need advice pls (TW: Eating Disorder)
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Im sorry you are feeling this way I understand it would be hard for you.
Anxiety can be hard to deal with and Im sorry that you felt embarrassed by being a migrant and your culture.
Please know that it doesn’t matter what we look like what matters is what’s inside of us…. We all have unique talents inside ourselves and this can be as simple as being kind.
The people who you felt discriminated by was a reflection of them and it wasn’t you.
I understand that you felt different but being different is great and unique try to embrace the beautiful person that you are.
Im sorry that you are dealing with a eating disorder I understand this would be hard.
Do you feel comfortable with your current psychologist or do you feel you would benefit from seeing a different one?
Just give yourself time you will eventually set new goals for your future it’s hard when we are going through a mental health condition it can be exhausting in itself.
Im sorry for what your mum said to you but I’m sure she loves you and wants the best for you.
I understand that you are seeking change, can I ask you what this looks like for you…
We are all capable of change it can be a life long journey to decide who we want to be and then try to evolve to that… but it’s possible
Hang in there, we are here to support you.