I just need someone to ask hows it going.

Broxxtex
Community Member
Pretty much I just need someone to come say "Hey man, hows it going" or tell me they are my friend. I already know that they are but it's good to hear it from them.  I don't care if I don't know you i'd be nice hearing it from time to time
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REOSpeedwagon
Community Member
Hey - how's it going, hang in there - this looks like a pretty big community so you are surrounded by friends.

Hi Broxxtex,

I know exactly how you feel, it makes such a big difference in the way we feel if someone shows they care.  Sometimes people mistakenly think we want them to fix our problems but that's not it, we just want someone to take an interest in how we are going.  It's just nice to connect to someone and share what's happening with each other and to hear how they are going too. 

So how are you doing? I really am interested. What's happening for you?

I look forward to hearing back from you on here.

Elysha
Community Member

Hi 🙂

I know what you mean, I confided in my best friend about my feelings and she didn't know how to react. We don't talk about it and I mask my emotions. Some people just don't know how to react or how to help you. While my best friend didn't know what to do, another girl who I'd only just met let me cry to her and express how I was really feeling, and she genuinely cares about how I am going. You need to find someone who you know will support you to confide in... and if you are uncomfortable doing that, seek professional help. Remember that sometimes people may not be aware that you are not okay as we often mask it. Or they may even think that you don't want to talk about it with them, so don't be afraid to start the conversation and let them know! After that they will be aware and may ask you regularly if you are okay. 
I hope you find the help that you need, and there is many people here who want to hear about how you are going and want to know if you're okay! And if you're not okay, we want to help you! 
:)