I have a boyfriend but i really like another guy

[Reece_Jai]

so im transgender (ftm) and im currently dating this really great guy that i love to bits, and i see a future with him but i hardly see him, tbh ive never met him... even though he only lives 30 minitues away from me... but then there is this guy at school, thats really cute, and he is wlays there by my side when im happy or sad, he buys me lunch when i forget mine, helps me out wherever he possibly can and always makes me smile. he is just a great guy in general and i really like him, and im always thinking of what it would be like to date him and kiss him..

i dont know what to do or who too choose

HELP ME PLEASE

[MaxineC]

Hi Reece, I'm a bit confused... how can you be dating someone you've never met?

[MsPurple]

Hi Reece

I think this sounds like a confusing time for you. Have you considered meeting up with the guy your are dating? I think you should meet up with him (if safe to do so) but for the first time I suggest in a public place like a cafe. (I always try meet people in public when I meet a date online). I think meeting up with the person you are dating is something that needs to happen if you want the relationship to continue. I don't think you should be strung along. It is hard to continue in a relationship without actually meeting a person face to face. Sometimes chemistry in person is different to online. It can be confusing have a crush on multiple people at a time, but it is completely normal at a young age. I think many people go through this. I think that acting on them is different to thinking them. But I think you need to discuss your relationship with the guy your are seeing online before seeing them in person and I think you should ask where the relationship is going because you don't want to close the door on your friend if your relationship/partner isn't on the same page as you.

I know it is confusing, I hope this has helped a little.

[geoff]

hi Reece, the guy you think you may love who lives 30 minutes away, may or may not be the person you want to connect with, because you never know what anyone is like until you live with them.
It hard to know why you haven't made regular contact with him, and also difficult to know why you can see a future with him, because all of us can say what we want when talking to someone online, but it doesn't actually tell you what he really likes or dislikes.
You have now developed a platonic r/ship with someone at school and feel as though you are following in love with him, so you know how he behaves and his thoughts on many issues, so ask him out and if you both want to kiss then do so. Geoff.