Hey balletgirl101, thank you for sharing with us.
I'm sorry to hear about you and your boyfriend. The end of a relationship is always hard, but as they say, one door closes, another opens.
Similarly to you, throughout high school, and even now out of school, my friendship circle tended to "inter-date" as we called it (date members of the same social group). This would ultimately end in tension and such, with friends dating other friends' ex's. It's much easier now they we are out of school and have moved on and only see each other every couple of months, however in a day-to-day school environment it can be tough.
What I suggest you do is to let them know you're still mourning the relationship and so they need to be considerate of that, and try not to be all "lovey dovey" around you. In stating that, it is important that the relationship between you and your best friend does not change, otherwise she may not be worth having as a best friend. Talk to her about making sure you still have time together to do fun things.
If she's a good friend, she would have perhaps already considered all of this and how torn you must be feeling. Don't beat yourself up over it, instead take it as an opportunity to perhaps focus more on your grades or on yourself and other hobbies or commitments you might have.
Crystal
