Mistakes are made

[Guest_96988592]

I made a mistake and I wouldn't even call it that I texted someone that a friend liked and didn't tell them till a week later cause I didn't know how and she got mad first and told everyone first therefore she is right and I have apologised and I have given her space and she is just not being nice and she told her side to people I care about and now they hate me. So, I'm just having a hard time since every time I've cared I've gotten hurt and I already bought them $70 worth of Christmas presents, and I don't know what to do and honestly, I'm done caring because it's just hurts to much and I'm done being nice when the people who I trust constantly hurt me. So that's my life adds a few over expectations from parents and financial issues and the rest and that's it. Sorry for dumping this on you and all the grammar mistakes.

[amd1953]

Everybody makes mistakes.   Some of us own up to them, apologise and try to make amends for them.   I would be looking for new friends who are willing to accept you for who you are.   You have already found your answer to this problem:  don't care about.   You have apologised.   What more can you do?   I would say move on now and don't look back.   Don't take any more nonsense from these people.   Life is far too short.

Good luck

amd1953

[Daydreamer70]

Hey there, 

I understand your hurt, mistakes happen and it can be really disheartening when you feel like you aplogy is not being heard or accepted. Unfortunately I think in many of these situations people tend to side with the majority without actualy thinking about how it can affect the person on the receiving end of the hate. In my experience these kinds of issues genrrally tend to pass, people find the next best thing to gossip about and all will be forgotten. It also shows you who your genuine friends are, because the ones who are worth having around will understand and hear your apology. With your parents and finances, these can be two very stressful things to navigate, but i always find discussing things honestly with my parents, and looking at my finances closely makes me feel better. 

I hope you start to feel better soon. Remember to be kind to yourself.