Help

Shani67
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Hi I would love to know how to start this could someone help me
9 Replies 9

CompulsiveLiar
Community Member

You just started. Good job. Im new here too. The point is to either read what others write and reply. Or not. Or tell us about you. Ive had good support so far. Im practising telling the truth. Its not easy. Thats me. You?

Panther

I might get in on this people if you don't mind. My wife has been away for over a month and I have isolated myself so much over the last year that I literally have not talked to anyone at all in this time. I actually have people to talk to, but I simply can't do it. I know they at least partially care, but I just can't. They leave messages, but I have no inclination to answer them at all.

Hello. I dont like people a lot of the time. I get isolation. Mine is all self-induced. Ive been chatting on line with a good crowd on BB. We read the OTT thread. Some good people. No judgement. Its not always sunshine and lollipops but thats life, isnt it?. What would you like to talk about Shani?

I isolate myself for different reason. I'm a very honest person and I find sometimes my honesty is insulting. Some times I just need to be alone, and people need to respect that. I have one friend right now who is so concerned about my need to be alone..... but why? I lived before she was a friend. Why do we always have to be surrounded by people who care some or maybe not at all. Why not just be alone and enjoy your own company, or cry in silence, or sleep, or drink or garden. Why do we have to socialise?

We dont.

Hi Shani and welcome to the forums. It can be hard having the talk about mental health or just talk in general when it strikes. You just want to isolate yourself and hide. You just commenting on the forums is a great start. It means you are wanting to open up. I suggest if you are concerned you can always talk to your GP or continue on here. We are a great community here on the BB forums 🙂 and if you just wanted to talk on the BB forums and didn't know how to strike up a forum convo then just writing what you want to talk about is a great start. I sometimes just look for other forums to go onto. And if that is not what you wanted to talk about I'm sorry please don't get offended just trying to help 🙂

Compulsiveliar I joined BB in June this year. I wanted to become a blue voice volunteer after I had used the blue voice resources that helped me start my recovery from anxiety. I then discovered the forums and started commenting. I usually have good days now, but I still have bad days where my anxiety flares up. I find PMS doesnt help. SO thats my story

Jojo sometimes we isolate ourselves as a self protect mechanism. We are worried we may get hurt by others. Depression and anxiety may cause us to want to be alone. I think it is good your friend is showing some concern. It shows she is a good friend. I don't think she is doing it with ill intension. If you used to socialise before and now not so much maybe there is a reason to be concerned.

Sorry everyone my concentration is bad today. But I felt like coming to the forums today and talking to people too

Righto. Thanks

Panther

jojo01
Community Member
Hi Shani67. How was your day?

Shani67
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Thank you Mspurple I am 49 and have had depression since I was 30 probable longer but for 9 and half years I thought I had it together now I realise it has come back I hurt myself broke my arm and went to talk to my work and ended up stealing sun screen and I have cancer why did I do that when I had money and a good job why have I put on weight when I just recently re married a wonderful man why do I look in the mirror everyday and tell myself my daughter who is twelve I don't deserve why do I still hate I wish in all my heart my anxiety my depression my bipolar would disappear but when I stand up in front of people and talk they don't know inside I am a who I am and my husband why would I do this don't get me wrong I have had this for a long time but why does it come back and make me loose things people and work now I am so lonely inside that every day I am blessed to put.my feet on the floor or am I