Hello

[Aypea]

Hi, Feeling a bit desperate tonight. I’m 55, living with anxiety/depression, and living with my partner of 29 years who suffers from very low self esteem and paranoia. I love her so much but its hard to cope with at times. I have to be so careful but slip up sometimes.

[Sophie_M]

Hey Aypea,

Welcome to the forums, we're so glad that you've taken a big step in sharing your thoughts and feelings here with our wonderful community. We're so sorry to hear that you've been finding it hard to cope at times, but please know that you've come to safe, non-judgemental space to talk things through and our community is here to offer as much support, advice and conversation as you need.

We noticed that you've mentioned living with anxiety and depression- can we ask if you are currently receiving any mental health support? Please know that you are always welcome to contact the Beyond Blue Support Service, which is available 24/7 on 1300 22 4636 or you can get in touch with us on Webchat (3pm-12am AEST) here: www.beyondblue.org.au/getsupport One of the friendly counsellors will be able to offer you support and advice, as well as referrals.

Many of our members have also been through a lot in their lives and will be able to talk through these feelings with you. If you would like to post further, please do feel free to tell us more about what's on your mind and how we can best help support you.

[ecomama]

Hi Aypea

Welcome to the forums.

It sounds like you're in a difficult situation living with your own MH challenges.

I wondered if you've sought help for the anxiety and depression you feel?

Hoping you can come back soon.

How are you doing since first posting?

EM

[blondguy]

Hi Aypea

Welcome too! I understand what you are going through and loving a partner that is experiencing the same. Can I ask if your partner has been diagnosed with low self esteem/paranoia?..(only if thats okay) I understand the 'walking on eggshells' you are going through

If you wish to elaborate on the symptoms we can provide you with more effective support..

Just from my own experience....when a person's anxiety...low self esteem has a detrimental effect on their ability to function effectively on day to day basis...its usually time to seek assistance from a GP...to start with..

just a friendly note...the forums are a safe and non judgmental place for you to post Aypea! Any questions are always welcome....

my kind thoughts

Paul

[geoff]

Hello Aypea, thanks for posting your comment and sorry for the situation you're in, and nobody can always make the right decision, it all depends on the timing and position you're in where it maybe acceptable one day but not the next.

Love can be complex if and when low self esteem and paranoid are involved, and make unsure of how to cope with it, so please, when you have the opportunity we'd like to hear back from you.

Geoff.