I am very concerned about my partner and the aggressive moods he gets in. They can come on very suddenly. He becomes very quiet and noticeably frustrated. Sometimes he has outburst and yells, he has hit our daughter quite hard once also. She was being naughty but I felt it was uncalled for. When I try to talk to him and ask him how he is feeling he mostly says he is feeling fine and that he is sick of me interrogating him about being moody. It is obvious to me when he is in a bad mood but he doesn't see any problem at all. He will snap at me and be very short and he really believes that there is nothing at all wrong and he is feeling fine. I'm confused. Is he just a very frustrated type person and I'm being too sensitive or is this behaviour not normal? Friends and family have also noticed his moods and he still refuses to believe there is a problem at all. I'm going crazy here!
that sounds very tough. It can be confusing in relationships. We know how we feel but the other person can be very persuasive sometimes in making us feel wrong, or like we did not experience something the way we did.
For what it's worth hitting people, including children, is wrong. Period. I'd be really asking myself if I want my daughter in an environment that is unsafe for her.
