Hi Haley,
That doesn't sound like you've met a very nice person!
Look up the term 'Gaslighting' . - This may shed some light on the behaviour on which you seem to be describing of this guy.
If he is triggering this much anxiety and he is accusing you of being insane and pushing your boundaries.. Then maybe you need to ask yourself, do you want him in your life?
If the answer is no, then cut him off and take little or no notice of what he had said.
Are you currently seeing a psychologist? I know with me, sometimes when someone triggers off a certain heavy emotion, it can last for days and remains on my mind.
It may benefit you having a professional to speak with and address any concerns this guy has created.
Wishing you all the best! And remember, you deserve to be treated with love, respect and kindness! 🙂
