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Trying to help my brother
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Hi all
New to this. While away over Xmas found out my bro had ice induced phycosis and did some bad stuff. locked up now waiting to go to court. It’s made me very sad for him, he’s a great bloke who makes some wrong choices a long the way. I feel helpless. I’m so scared for him. Not allowed contact with him as yet, tho I have tried.
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Thanks Burdy. It means a lot to me that ppl take the time to read and respond to my post. I’m going back in tomorrow to try and visit him or at least give him a letter. will also contact legal aid. I spoke to him this morning for only 2.5 mins
i can hear it in his voice he is coming down. He’s very very scared
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Dear Leigh~
I'm glad you were able to have even a brief conversation, in the remand centers there is little of the outside world and contact from family can make an awful lot of difference.
We all here are saying the same thing to you in different ways, you need to look after and pace yourself. We don't say it as an easy thing to advise, but simply because too many people think they are an infinite resource, a bottomless well of support. We all have limits, and often don't realize what the are.
With rehab, if you brother is lucky enough to be offered the chance it will only work if he really wants it to. Going though the motions to satisfy a magistrate is not enough. Does he have a partner or other person he really cares about to provide motivation? Often one does not care about oneself sufficiently. Perhaps being scared is a start.
Good luck with Legal Aid, they would be very used to the situation.
Croix
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Hey Croix, he did have a partner, she’s been half his problem tho. He’s on assault charges from her and affray. Yeh I really hope this situation scares him, as nasty as that sounds, he needs something to jolt him into line. Doesn’t mean I don’t feel for him. He def needs to want to help himself first, totalling agree with that i love him, but been looking after him for over 30 years, hes 40 y/o and needs to take some responsibility for his actions
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