Dear vip
And these are the couple that you're now living with yeah? And they've got two smallish children as well, yeah?
Um, with regard to throwing a completely yummy cooked home meal into the bin - I don't know what sort of behaviour that is - it could be a cheaters way, but for me, I think it's absolutely horrible to do. Why would you throw out a dinner? The man is clearly not thinking properly. (Sorry, slight light-hearted moment).
It doesn't sound like a good situation - but at the moment, it's all alleged and possibilities.
Just some questions though - how do you and your friend know quite so much about this 21yo girl? And also, has your friend queried him on (a) why he slams his computer shut when she comes into the room? I'd be querying him big time on that. What's he hiding? But to ask him straight out, you would think he'd hardly say, "Yes, I am".
Just a quick one back to you - what do you think?
One last thing GA - and this isn't meant to be patronising in any way; but you've got your own massive issues that you're dealing with - and I'm not saying that you shouldn't be concerned about this - but, gee, I don't know what I am saying here - was trying to say, that as much as you can, I'd be trying to take a back-seat and not to stress too much about it if you can - because of where you're at at the moment. Although I guess you'll say, that I'm feeling at rock bottom at the moment, another issue to worry about isn't going to make you fall down deeper. Anyway, I'm just saying. 🙂
Neil
