CARER FOR RELATIVE

[Mathias]

My "Not Real Name" is Mathias. I am a 67 yr old male who is caring for my 94 year old Uncle. He has only returned recently from 3 weeks in respite care following rehab from a shingles infection on the right side of his temple and face. I have had him assessed and approved by ACAS for funding of a medium care package. I was told that funding will take 6-12 months to come through. In the interim I have approval for some services such as Meals on Wheels, Cleaning, and Showering 3 times weekly. I have also managed to set up direct debit payment for his bills which takes the worry off his shoulders. All of these services do help but I am wondering if there are any other people in a similar position that can offer me some advice regarding in-home-care to help free up some time for myself. I would appreciate any advice that can help me to to do this.

[Sophie_M]

Hi Mathias, 

Welcome back to the forums after taking some time away from this community. It sounds like you have been able to come to terms with your grief and you have developed some really strong coping mechanisms including your meditation. 

We are so sorry to hear that your Uncle has passed away and we encourage you to call our phoneline if you feel like talking to someone. The Beyond Blue phoneline 1300 22 4636 is a great place to discuss how you're feeling if you feel like you need to. 

Thank you for coming to the forums and for sharing your story, it is an incredibly brave thing to have done.

Please feel free to update us on how you are going if you feel comfortable.

Kind regards, 

Sophie M