advice please

Rmjj
Community Member

hi all ..... so i am after advice please my partner of about 9 months has basically burnt himself out and is now in a depressed state so after having an anxiety attack he has basically said to me that he has gotten to his breaking point and he cant be do a relationship anymore as he needs to sort himself out and focus i really want to support him though he has taken the first step and gotten himself into a clinic to get the help he needs which i am thrilled for him but i just really want to b there for suppprt is there anything i can do? hhe has pushed me away once before but came back after a while but this tome is much more serious .....thoughts please​

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HA1
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi Rmjj!

It sounds like your partner is experiencing all the symptoms I went through.  Not uncommon.

I would suggest that you allow him time to find his peace - even if it means taking a break from each other because the need for solitude is very typical of people in your partners situation.  It is not a reflection of a change in their feelings for you, but an unexplainable symptom of our illnrss.

Take care

K

Rmjj
Community Member
thankyou very much 🙂