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Vent and then let it go...
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Not sure about anyone else but sometimes I just need to vent, including venting any frustrations, fears, hopes, worries, longings and anything else. Most of the time I don't want any advice or any responses. Just need a way to get it all out from within me.
So thought this thread could be for those sort of things. No one replys to you with words or anything. It's a place to let it all go. Just dump whatever it is you want to say and leave it here.
So yeah no replys please.
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Oh Sleepy, I’m so sorry it’s so tough at the moment. Lockdown is awful & I reckon it must be worse to be on your own. We haven’t been out of the house at all for 3 weeks. We supposedly only have another week to go but I bet it will be extended. That will be at least one full month totally at home indoors. Who’d have thought it could ever be like this?
Please know that I’ll be thinking of you. I hope someone or something can lift your spirits very soon. Be gentle with yourself, T.
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Hi topsy, Ur sweet thank u. I hope it does end for u guys soon. I hope it is OK.
I have a real struggle with this LD, it's not great living on my own in Victoria I can't do much to keep busy or see people
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Yep , who'd have ever thought something like this in this day and age could be happening.lronically it's this day and age that helped it happen but never the less , who'd have thought.
l hope so to sleepy and l'm sorry about your situation . lt's probably more living through computers than ever before for many of late , myself included.
rx
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One ongoing issue for people in our super fast changing world is lack of adaption to change.
Back in grandpa's grandfathers' days, people would say things like "I'll catch up with you in spring."
And nearly everyone was just fine with that.
Then society progressed to, "Let's have a meeting in december."
And nearly everyone was just fine with that.
Then society moved forward to "I need to see you next week about this."
And more people fell away, the people who weren't fine with that. Waiting instead for decembers comfort.
Then civilisation progressed to "Our deadline for this is close of business Friday."
And people who were fine, took on that stress, and carried the burden, whilst others avoided - for their own valid reasons. And those that were fine but stressed...
"I'm working on this right now, I've got something else booked in 45 minutes, and my calendar is so filled up, I am scheduling in family appointments just to make sure I don't forget what I so desperately want to remember."
And now we've got covid, and those who are time poor are now even time destitute and ragged and thin and some are breaking and some are crying and some need help even more than others... who are soldiering on - and will delay their own release until they ____?
And all along those who are alone, or isolated, feel that whilst saying...
"I need to chat with you now." , I’ll see u in spring.
“I need to discuss this now.”, I’ll be over in decemember.
“We should have a chat about this today.” I’ll be available next week.
“I’m worried about this issue, can you help.”, We’re available on monday, call us.
“I’m concern that this has happened.” I understand your concerns, I’ll deal with it by 5 pm friday.
“This is an absolute disaster, ultra highest priority right now!” The systems broke, error unreceived message, fatal system crash, backups lost, hard drive failure, electricity down, cupboard empty.
“Wow neighbour, the stuff really has hit the fan, how’s your family coping?”
Well it’s funny you should ask but we seen this coming I’ve got food to spare with you when you need it and a garden growing and some seeds I’ve stockpiled for whomever. A bicycle for transport, rainwater. Paper books - here have this one, you already know the title.
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I am ready..no more
Choose life.. I can't see it
I yearn for this life you said I have. Its the hunger of my very soul.
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You are ready for living ever more.
Close your eyes and feel your own life. Taste your tongue, smell your arm pit, that is life right there, all you, or all synergising with you. Gut bacteria digesting food for your body, funguses for you to eat and taste, fresh are to smell, polluted air to avoid. Taste your own salt from sweating in the garden!
You are hungry for what sports people call "peak performance" or "flow". That feeling of being, of letting everything go except this exact moment, perfectly aligned in this time period, doing _____ what it is you do that makes you feel that way, that you hunger for.
So what you hungry for? What are your needs and, your wants and, your desires?
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I'm annoyed at over thinking what the owners of the property im renting said yesterday! it has left me with the feeling that theyre going to sell!
Hopefully if they do sell, the new owners will keep us on as tenants.
But im working on moving on and not worrying about it until theres something to worry about.
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I'm also annoyed I don't have a deposit saved for a loan! Id buy the apartment if I could.
But - I am working on that. I appreciate that it takes time to save for a deposit.
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Our budgie escaped and my girlfriend is heartbroken 😞
It sucks not being able to heal her pain.
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