Vent and then let it go...

[Guest_1055]

Not sure about anyone else but sometimes I just need to vent, including venting any frustrations, fears, hopes, worries, longings and anything else. Most of the time I don't want any advice or any responses. Just need a way to get it all out from within me.

So thought this thread could be for those sort of things. No one replys to you with words or anything. It's a place to let it all go. Just dump whatever it is you want to say and leave it here.

So yeah no replys please.

[Guest_1584]

Yep l believe Australians have gone to shyt they seem so shallow and me me now , there's zero care for others anymore dog eat dog me me me my money money money.

Your exactly right mb there is no understanding of mb they do just think it's a cold just goes away next wk. But at the same time unless you've been around it or had problems , l can see how people just don't get it.My own family don't even get it.

3 or 4 yrs in your town to eh , about the same as me and mine now. Unfortunately l've made zero progress locally either and that's not gonna change.

rx

[Guest_4643]

hey randomx.

yep, had we known this we would never have moved here. we looked at surrounding suburbs but couldn't find what we wanted for the price range. i know. people are so ignorant here. i have asthma and my neighbour (well one of them, the others keep to themselves) has the flute (or whatever its called) on his fire too low so it goes directly in our house even if no windows are open, like it is right now as i type this. and there's always a smell of smoke around anyway because people burn off, since it's in the country. it gets annoying at times and when you have asthma or other coughing and breathing issues it doesn't help. i know they need to do it but it's like every day here.

people here only seem to care about themselves. you're right, it has gone to shyt and sadly lots of people have no respect for others including those with MH issues or something like that. it's disgusting.

[Guest_1584]

Damn mb that wouldn't help your ashma at all.Your family could ask them to run it a bit higher wouldn't cost them much but if they refused the council would probably make them do it. Mind you l realize these things can lead to hassles with people sometimes too that we just don't feel like.

I'm probably moving next yr but that's gonna be a lot of hassle too and it's the last thing l feel like tbh. lt's so hard to choosing a new place and the people too isn't yeah l sure hear ya there for sure , the budget yep there too. l'm dreading it. Sorry it's panned out that way there , hope something improves for ya.

rx

[Guest_4643]

yeah it does suck. we were looking into doing that anyway but you're right with the drama.

we were looking into moving too but we don't know where, have to look at houses, sell ours, etc etc. it's a lengthy process. i would somewhat miss it, like my old suburb, although that was full of crime, but it had everything there like food etc. so i miss that because of that and my grandparents when they were alive were only in one of the next suburbs about 5 mins away.

it's peaceful and nice walking tracks and bird life but that's all i like really. i guess i'd still somewhat miss it though.

hope things improve for you too.

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"Not sure about anyone else but sometimes I just need to vent, including venting any frustrations, fears, hopes, worries, longings and anything else. Most of the time I don't want any advice or any responses. Just need a way to get it all out from within me.
So thought this thread could be for those sort of things. No one replys to you with words or anything. It's a place to let it all go. Just dump whatever it is you want to say and leave it here.
So yeah no replys please."

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[Guest_4643]

a bit anxious about seeing this replacement GP. says he deals with mental health but my GP (who's away, no one knows when he'll be back) does too, but he doesn't know much about it (he does but he doesn't, if that makes sense). i guess every doctor can't know everything but it would help a lot. hopefully he's nice. he probably can't do much for me though. i'll keep seeing my GP when he gets back. hopefully he's doing ok given what's happened to him while he was on annual leave. i've been thinking of him.

if I need new meds (probably will, these current ones are one of the worst, if not, THE worst, i've been on) then my Psychiatrist will have to prescribe them for me and i don't see him until the 24th, GP on the 21st. most GPs i've been to won't get involved & prescribe me stuff because then it causes drama etc etc. so fair enough. hopefully my Psychiatrist won't get mad at me about that but I'm hoping if i explain the situation it should be fine.

[CMF]

I'm bored. Bored with life,bored with my relationship that is the same as it was 2 &1/2 years ago. Same thing day in, day out, week after week.

Just bored.

[Guest_1643]

someone really hurt me today, a stranger, used a rough tone, made me feel bad

they don't know my story and how much that can hurt on a rough day

i want to practise paatientce with ppl, and be surrounded by those similar

[golden82]

Well well some 'ppl' are just really not cooperative. Having emailed the agent re noise of neighbour who had ignored us asking him to be a tad quieter.. well said neighbour obviously doesn't like being asked to do the right thing. Instead has taken to turning the volume 24/7 to at least 50% maybe 75% louder than already loud. It has made me so angry. I was warned about ppl like this. I cannot relate. But i am a lil fighter and put up with stuff for so much.. but I will stand up for myself. Wow fake nice to the extreme. He is unstable and aggressive; smiles but evil on the inside. These kinds of ppl are dangerous.

[Guest_4643]

i wish people were more aware of how sensitive i am - the smallest things, in person or online, can upset me. people seem to just treat me like crap anyway, but i try my hardest to be a good person and be there for others, and so forth.

i wish people understood that i have an illness that makes me very sensitive, sensitive to critism, rejection, failure, etc etc. called Avoidant Personality Disorder (or AVPD/APD). it hurts, and i overthink everything. i try to be strong but i just can't, sigh.