Vent and then let it go...

[Guest_1055]

Not sure about anyone else but sometimes I just need to vent, including venting any frustrations, fears, hopes, worries, longings and anything else. Most of the time I don't want any advice or any responses. Just need a way to get it all out from within me.

So thought this thread could be for those sort of things. No one replys to you with words or anything. It's a place to let it all go. Just dump whatever it is you want to say and leave it here.

So yeah no replys please.

[Guest_4643]

I'm so lonely. I feel like the loneliest person on earth. Even criminals seem to have friends. Why not me? I try to be kind & all the good traits. I'm not good enough for anybody. I'm a failure. No one will ever accept me, or love me as family (apart from my parents) & friends.

I'd love a group of friends where you all get along & hang out & include everyone, even some guys in the groups, but mostly girls. Have sleepovers, go to movies/stay home & watch movies/TV, go out to eat, whatever. Just basic stuff.

I would be happy with 1 friend, near or around my age, whether they're younger or older. Why is it so hard?

[Matchy69]

Hi Tàyla I am really sorry that you are struggling so much with loneliness.It really is one of the worst feelings and I know you have tried to hard to make friends.I know you are a really good caring person and would make a great friend.
Take care,
Mark.

[Guest_4643]

Hi Mark, thanks. It's really tough.

[Jack2021]

Hiya mb 😊😊

I hope it's not bad of me to reply here...well I mean maybe "bad" isnt the word, but I know this thread is mostly meant to be a venting thread with replies not really intended...but we're all here for kindness and support still 😊😊

I feel like I can relate to a lot of what you've said about lonliness ( so many issues I have I know 😂) and it does suck, but one things for sure, it doesn't make you a failure, and doesn't mean people won't accept you 😊

I know it's not exactly the same, but having friends online can help, and I like to think we're all friends here on this forum as well 😊

Making friends as an "adult" - after primary school, secondary school, Tafe/uni, etc, etc, I just find is incredibly hard really....as much as I've gotten along with other coworker's in most of the places I've worked, at the end of the day, they just have "the co worker" mentality, and never really consider me as an actual friend...even when we used to talk like crazy all the time at work, hang out on lunch breaks, mess around at meetings, etc, etc...it's like once the work day is over, they become emotionally detached...just sucks...

Anyway I have no idea if all this will help you or not, but you're definately not a failure, and definately not alone in finding it hard to make friends...and for what it's worth, you've got a friend in me as well 😊 (Disney Toy Story pun was unintentional 😂😂)

[Guest_4643]

Hey Jack.

Yes it's fine for you to reply here. It does suck, and it is hard. Thank you, and haha about the Toy Story reference

[Jack2021]

Cool cool 😊

Mmm exactly right there...very hard, but yeah, just know you're not alone there, and that yeah it's a hard thing to do I guess 😱

Oh yeah but the funny part was it was completely unintentional!!! Wasn't until I put it into text I looked at it and thought wth I accidentally referenced toy story 😂😂😂

[Guest_4643]

Haha, all good. It is hard.

[Guest_1055]

You've got a friend in me
You've got a friend in me
When the road looks rough ahead............

😊

[Guest_4643]

Nice one Shelll.

[Guest_4643]

I see my GP later today, will give you all an update here and in my thread.

I bet nothing will be done as usual, and I'll be mad going there and leaving, I already am a bit. Even my Psychiatrist said he should be communicating with him such as "Tayla came in with these concerns", or whatever the issue is, and they organise something.

The last time they spoke was over the phone and it was before Christmas. I need to get a referral and I bet he won't do it, and will ask me about a Psychologist.