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Store Your Happy Memories Here:
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Dear All~
What this place is for:
This thread is a tool, a resource, and also I guess a dash of entertainment.
I’ve found that when life is grim that sometimes thoughts of past happiness can create a chink of light in the grey overwhelming press of down. They can help occupy the mind with lighter reflections.
With that in view I invite people to set down a brief passage describing some happy event they look back to with fondness and peace.
They - and others too - can then return to it when they feel the need to glean a little warmth.
It is not a place for gloomy or dire tales, those can go elsewhere.
What to do:
Just set out, as simply as you like, your recollection of some past experience that means something good to you, something you enjoyed, something from safe times.
It can be, like my story below, anything – from an account of visiting grandparents to simply cooking and eating a melted-cheese sandwich in a favorite kitchen – you get to choose.
How to do it:
Write. Write enough so someone else can feel the mood, know what happened, find the goodness. (stop at 2,500 characters please!)
Grammar, syntax, spelling, punctuation are not compulsory, just write as you can – the only important thing is the content - not literary merit. Short or long - it does not matter.
I hope you enjoy, contribute and find a little distraction here when you need it.
Croix
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Hi All,
We live some distance from the city of Adelaide now so I don't venture that way very often unless it is to visit the beaches!
I've been fortunate enough to visit Kangaroo Island here in S.A. There is a place there called Stokes Bay. Decades ago, you drove along a rough road to reach the beach and there was some indication of a parking area. The bay in front of you is full of boulders and stones, the waves can be rough and you wonder where on earth is the beautiful curved sandy beach you have seen in the brochure!
There is a small cliff at one end of the beach, if you meander along to that you find a track leading through a cliff "tunnel" that leads you to a wonderful beach with a natural rock pool. Some people miss it because they are unaware of the hidden beach beyond the cliff.
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Hello Dools and All,
Dools, I know your post is from some time ago now but I enjoyed reading about Kangaroo Island. It’s another place I’d love to visit. I hope you are doing well.
The happy memory that I’m currently recalling is from a few years ago. I was looking for a place to live in the country and had a look at a place in a particular town. I decided to visit another town before returning home, more out of curiosity than anything. The main place to stay was the pub. It was $70 a night, $75 if you wanted to include breakfast. I booked a couple of nights and the online form gave you a space for additional info where you added the breakfast option. I’d recently gone gluten free so I just said if they have gluten free options that’s great but no worries if not.
I knew it was a 2 star hotel so it wouldn’t be flash but that was all fine with me. The first thing I saw was the “No Antisocial Behaviour Will Be Tolerated” as I pushed open the front door. A seriously tough looking woman in cowboy boots looked at me like “Waddya want?” I explained I’d booked two nights accommodation. I was given a key and waved in the direction of the stairs. I lugged my case up the stairs and found my room. Small but fine for me. It came with some free port which I knew I wouldn’t be drinking after a recent liver disease diagnosis. I found where the single bathroom and toilet were down the hallway, very rustic with paint stripping off the wall but functional. Definitely a creaky old pub but it had character. I ate at the bar that night and went to bed with the sound of noisy shenanigans from patrons for awhile that eventually settled down.
The following morning I went down for the expected breakfast. There was nothing to be seen. I found a few dining tables and chairs at one end but no sign of breakfast. I wandered about until I found a dude with dreads and tatts vacuuming. I asked, “I’ve paid for a breakfast, do you know where it’s served?” He said, “Ah mate, they shoulda told you”. He stopped vacuuming and unlocked a door to a kitchen. He scrounged up some Vegemite and pointed to some bread on the table and tea bags. I picked up the slightly out-of-date bag of bread and there were dead flies under it. You would think I might be p$&@ed off at this point but I found it hilarious 🤣 He left me to prepare my breakie and continued his vacuuming.
I sat down with my toast and tea at the dining table and began to munch away. Then a few minutes later he came over to chat. He was so friendly and told me wonderful things. Firstly he told me all about the history of the hotel. Then he told me about his horses he keeps on his property nearby. He told me how amazing they are and that they can intuit the weather. He said he always knows when a thunderstorm is coming by their behaviour where they become super sensitive and aware. He described coming to that location because it’s where he could afford to buy land. He was interested in my photography and gave me a great tip for a photo location high up on a hill and told me how to get there and that I’d see the landmark of an abandoned farmhouse. So after a day of exploring nearby nature reserves and a visit to another town at lunch, I drove up to this hill and saw the farmhouse knowing I was in the right spot. It was indeed a great view. I got a photo across the landscape with a combine harvester moving through a field harvesting a wheat crop.
That night I enjoyed fish and chips at the pub, same as the night before. They were overrun and it took about an hour to arrive but I didn’t complain. I could see they were busy. And the tough country ladies behind the bar were nice and friendly to me. I think they decided I was an alright city slicker after all and not some uppity yuppy with my request for a gluten free breakfast 😂
The following morning I left, after more Vegemite on stale toast, feeling like I’d just had an enriching experience. I loved the characters I met and, yes, breakfast wasn’t spectacular. But sometimes something that could be taken as disappointing turns out to be meaningful. I got a feel for the place and the characters in it, and that is priceless. I especially loved hearing about the horses and I was very grateful for the kind fellow scrounging me some breakfast. I departed with a happy memory.
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Dear All~
I've just had an expereince which I suspect will become a happy memory. After spending rather too long in a hospital bed there was the sight of Mrs C coming into my ward wiht a bag containing my clothes together with a nurse armed with large sheaf of forms.
I dressed, signed everywhere indicated - the forms were printed in the smallest font possible so I've no idea what I agreed to, then we left, the car nearby and I was chauffeured home.
I headed for my chair be the fire and was inundated with Sumo, who plonked himself down on my left arm and proceeded to tell me how mistreated he has been, not enough snacks, doors not opened speedily and not favorite place to squash my legs in bed (Sumo is rahter like a small sack of concrete -heavy!)
So now I have to type one-handed, things were bad enough with two.
To have a person realy pleased to see you -and of course a cat too - is one of the treasures in life.
Croix
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Dear Croix,
That is a lovely story. I’m just about to go to bed and it’s left me with feelings of warmth. It will be just so lovely for Mrs C and Sumo to have you home.
Thank you for sharing and sleep well 😴
ER
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Dear All~
I've just had the most enjoyable evening with Mrs C and a friend we have not been able to catch up with for years. It was in a restaurant with good inexpensive food and a place where my hearing was good enough for a conversation.
Amazingly we all resumed talking as if the years had not happened, so comfortable, so easy. The conversation ranged from overseas experiences to films to early British comedy and while this was exactly what we used to talk about before we each had new experiences to relay.
So often after a social occasion somebody says "We must do this more often", a sort of compulsory finish to an evening, however good or bad. In this case I knew our friend actually meant it.
Croix
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I really liked how you still had a sense of connection to a friend you had not caught up with for a while.
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This is a recent memory but a very happy one:
This morning I went walking again while pushing the pram with my cute nephew sleeping in it. He does like the feeling of the rough and bumpy road.
After I change into boots, grap my water,hat and banana I set out with the little baby. It is a property that his home is on. The ground is a mixture of some grass and large bits of gravel. And it is quite bumpy here too. I push his pram down and out the opened gate. One time this gate was closed up as the neighbours cows were coming in. I walk down a slight hill then onto the dirt road. I check him to see if he is closing his eyes, he looks around a little then he is asleep. So I pull the pram down to a laying position and pull the shade thingy over. Off we go, there are trees on both sides of this road so in sections it is beautiful and coolish under them. They are mostly Australian natives. A few cars, a motorbike and a vehicle from the post office pass us. I moved over to the side some because the road becomes dusty as they pass and for safety reasons. All good though. I keep walking on pushing the pram. I soon step onto the sealed road it feels so nice and smooth after the bumpy and rough. There a groups of cows near here. And I saw a murky looking dam . Hopefully it will rain soon and fill it with fresh water.
I turn around and eat my banana then chuck the peel in the long grass growing beside the road. I am feeling the heat of the sun now. Soon I see my little nephews mumma she is walking her horse up to meet us. I patting him this time. I am a little scared of horses but I am slowly getting used to seeing him. We walked together a while me pushing the pram and the horse with the rider. Soon they take off faster as the horse needed a good wash down . Later we meet up with them in the paddock near the house. I watched the horse being washed with a long hose. I am really enjoying the walk and seeing my little nephew.
Shell
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This memory is a recent one, just tonight. I think this made me happy because I created something that looked beautiful to me. And sometimes I think I can't do anything good.
I made a salad jar. I had already cut up a collection of vegetables and arranged them all in neat sections on a very large baking tray. So it was a mass of beautiful fresh colours. I had a 1 litre glass jar with a checked red lid.
I had already made a dressing , so I placed that in the jar first. Then I placed in the chopped up green cucumber next. That actually sunk so I probably should have placed it in a different place. All good. Next I place some green shredded cabbage inside the jar. Followed my grated carrot, marinated tofu diced up, then cherry tomatoes halved, red capsicum cut into thin strips and finely some baby spinach on the top. I placed the red checked lid on top. Which reminded of a picnic. Then I saw a bowl of finely sliced red onion that I had forgotten to put in the jar. Not to worry though. I looked at my yummy healthy creation. It looked so beautiful even my son said so. It is now in the fridge for my lunch tomorrow. It made me happy creating this and knowing I can make something beautiful
Shell
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