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Remembering the bad/good ole days

Just Sara
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

Recently I posted about how life was growing up and the hardships my family and I faced. (See-saw, Marjorie door..Staying well)

Although the younger generation might role their eyes or tell how things have changed and not to dwell, I've found comfort in remembering how the simple pleasures in life can be the most enjoyable. We place so much pressure on ourselves trying to live up to social standards and forget just how uncomplicated life can be without those constraints.

When I was little, I lived in a busy prominent street where all the neighbours knew who and where people in our area were. I walked out of my home down the street naked as a toddler and was bought back by someone over a block away. My parents invited them in, shared a simple meal and played cards till late while they talked and laughed about me 'touring' the neighbourhood.

We didn't have a phone or a TV, but managed to find things to do. Music and hourly news would fill the air most of the time and 'playing' meant enjoying whatever was laying around the yard or house. As I grew older, tinkering in our shed became an exercise in exploration and adventure. Ooh...so much junk!!

Do you have stories that reflect how spoiled we've become in society and how life 'was' in opposition to now?

Please share...Dizzy xo

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james1
Community Champion
Community Champion

I'm only 24, but I do look back at when I was younger. Things like:

- having a mudbath in our yard with my best mate then being hosed down by some angry parents

- trashing a broken down car in our yard and having make-believe stories in there

blondguy
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

Hey Dizzy

Great topic..oh boy we are luckier these days. In 1983 when my anxiety hit hard I was 23...there were

  • no cell phones (car mounted units just came out at $4500) and the phone number started with 007.....lol
  • no PC...laptop meant a small lapdog...lol
  • no Beyond Blue
  • no speed cameras
  • no social media
  • our lives were more private

I do feel for younger people nowadays as even though technology makes are lives easier the pace of life is faster busier. Anxiety and depression have also increased as well.

Nice1 Dizzy

Paulxx

Hey James;

Make believe and mud baths sound great! I remember the oh so gooey brown stuff (or red depending where you lived) and the pleasure of squeezing it between my fingers...noice!

Paul...ah yes...Drive-in movies, 85c pack of smokes, $45 pr/wk rent and disco's. How could I forget those figure hugging emerald green metallic look pants?! Thank-you 'Grease' for giving my thick long curly locks a place in history too!

Love it!!!!!!

PS...mobile phone's like bricks...he he

Cold_Mirror
Community Member

A lot of our clothes were either sewn or knitted by my mother. There was no taking
it back to the store because we just didn't like the colour. We also had a lot of second hand stuff from friends and it was received with gratitude.

Like Paul, there were no mobile phones. We only saw computers on the TV and they were huge. And, speaking of phones, there was no telemarketing that I can think of although occasionally someone would come to the door and try to sell you a set of encyclopaedias or a vacuum cleaner.

I remember when most cars weren't fitted with seat belts.

When I was growing up the stigma around depression was huger than it is now. Although the next door neighbour was taking a well-known anti-anxiety med for her agoraphobia, but no-one talked about it much.

We didn't lock our doors at night because it was a small town. We didn't even know where the keys were. In spite of that, my mother was terrified that we would be kidnapped, so we were warned to not take rides from strangers.

I was eight years old when Neil Armstrong walked on the moon. Yeah - I'm an old person.

james1
Community Champion
Community Champion
I threw out our old encyclopaedias the other week (actually two weeks - so damn many books!). That was sad. I barely read them, but it was sad all the same.

Hey Cold Mirror! Glad you're staying with us on BB.

I was 10 when Neil walked on the oh so boring moon...gasp! We had a TV set up in school for hrs of mind numbing black and white fuzzy pic's. The first 5 min's were great, but then they wouldn't turn it off!

Second hand clothes were the norm in our household too. I was the eldest which at least gave me some new ones here and there, though Vinni's was visited regularly as a matter of course.

Telemarketers...I let out a loud "OMG yeah!" when I read that. My phone's silent for this reason.

Oh James...encyclopaedia's were so amazing when my son was young. I had an old set that helped me to create a single cell organism out of plastersine for his school diorama. He got an A! It was the only coloured pic in the book I think. It's so hard to throw/give those types of things away eh? I have shopping bags full of books due to my home being small; I can't find the courage to let them go. When I was young, researching for school meant hrs in library's and hand written info on pieces of cardboard; pic's were drawn or torn out of magazines.

Oh how times have changed. The ABS is one of the first places I go on the net when looking up stat's for instance. Try doing that in 1975!

Great posts!!

topsy_
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

What a lovely thread! I remember

- milk being delivered in a tin pail on the back of a tractor,

- groceries being delivered for free & being carried in through the unlocked back door

- tennis round robins in school holidays

- hosing my brother in the backyard in the summertime

- swinging a small bucketful of water & finding out what happened if I stopped with the bucket vertically above my head

- watching my daughters make mud pies

- playing duplo spaceships with a very young friend on my 40th birthday

& so many more things.

Thanks, Dizzy@home. Yes, the moon walk was the most boring
thing and I couldn't understand a word they were saying.

One more memory. School milk! The local dairy delivered tiny little bottles of milk every day and they sat in the sun until drunk later in the morning. Hideous. A tepid drink of milk with a layer of cream on top. There was no getting out of it unless there was a note from home. LOL.

OMG...I'm laughing out loud. I remember those things too.

YN and CM...keep it coming lovely's!!!!!!!!!

Such fun...