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Bisexual girl...

lil_lexi
Community Member

I'm a 15 year old girl, and I am bisexual...

When I first came out, I put it on my Facebook profile bio that I was interested in Girls and Boys. I also came out on Ask.fm. I knew a lot of people from school are on there...so people talked about it at school, and it spread around. Some people from my school are still only just learning about my sexuality, even though I came out a few months ago.

Anyway...

When I first came out, a lot of guys would talk to me about it. This one guy, asked if he could ask me some questions about being Bisexual, because he was a friend of mine- and I have been friends with him for 8 years- I said sure.

A lot of the questions were so INAPPROPRIATE.

But..I still answered the questions, I trusted him, and I was fine with it.

I used to get questions on Ask.fm, asking me if i was Christian, why am I also Bi- isnt that wrong. And I was just like "Tf, its not wrong."

But, no one really asks me questions anymore, which is good.

At school, this one guy has been bothering me and my best freind about being Bisexual.

My best friend is also Bisexual. Which is cool.

The reason I came out as Bisexual to my best friend: She came out to me!

I was quite scared to come out as Bi to her, I thought she would judge me. So she was the last to know... But one day she messaged me and ended up saying she was Bi, I was like "Umm, well this is funny. Same" I was so surprised I was like "OMG THIS IS SOO COOL, WE CAN BOTH CHECK OUT GIRLS TOGETHER"

But this one guy, at school, at my Christian school, keeps bothering me. Saying I'm in love with my best friend- because we're both Bi. And I say, thats not how it works...just cause we're Bi doesnt mean we're in love. He says, it does work that way, and we love each other

*Eye roll* Yeah, like sisters.

He also keeps saying- Bisexual and Lesbian ARE THE SAME THING.

And I always say no it isn't, but everyone says it is.

Lesbian- Girls liking girls, and ONLY girls.

Bisexual- Liking girls AND boys.

Jeez, its not that hard to see there 2 different things.

What do I do with this guy? I'm so sick of him, should I report him to a teacher or something..that probably wont even do anything.

Anything I could say to him to get off my back...

Please help xx

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Paul
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hey lil_lexi

Your post is amazing because it tells me how well adjusted you are to who you are. Sometimes that's the biggest battle.

With the guy that keeps hassling you about you and your friend, you could try ignoring him and actually pretend he doesn't exist, even when he talks to you look right through him. It seems he isn't going to understand any type of conversation you have with him.

You could ask him how he knows so much about bisexuality!

If it's difficult to ignore him and it what he says is still hurtful let's talk about what it is that's hurtful about what he's saying. Apart from him being a goose!

What are your thoughts lil_lexi?

Paul