Why me? The hate. I'm done...

[RichoC]

Well, I'm living a wonderful life here.

I try so hard every day to be good, calm, easy and nice. That's who I am.

I'm even on potent medication that stops flare-ups and all that. I hate it, but whatever it takes, right?

My Wife loves abusing me, telling me I'm a loser, complaining when I bring up a special time in my life at work and says, Oh, you talk yourself up, sound like a dick head.

No, just remembering a great time in my life when I was successful. Nice to celebrate, that isn't it?

Recently, I've had no job, sacked illegally from my last job.

So as a workplace lawyer ,I'm taking them to court to be prosecuted. Makes my blood pressure boil.

It's so bad. I will win.

Ripped me tonight in front of her family members for bringing up good memories.

I said shut the F up, oh then I was attacked like you can't believe. Sorry, you pushed me again as usual. I can't take it.

I tried to explain, but no one cares. Just more attacks on me. Abused me all of them.

I said fuck this, I'm leaving.

I'm so bad. No, just abused daily.

I want out. I'm done.

I can legally do it all myself because I have before.

I have struggled for years with things and all I get is abuse and complaints.

I just got an amazing job and good pay, which will be huge.

Don't think I want to share that.

And I'm about to receive money for my music, almost $1 million, my songs are really good!

Go me! All mine.

Think I'll keep all that. I wrote the song, so it's mine.
Could pay the mortgage out, but hey.

I'm just struggling with the abuse, negative comments about me.

I can't keep doing this. Rather be on my own again.
Maybe my ex-girlfriend will want me back; she's very, very beautiful. I'd be so happy. Like Margot Robbie beautiful.
Any way ranting, no support, just abuse. But wants my money now.
Should I just pack up and go? Be happy right now.

Thanks 🙂 Sorry I'm broken again by her, she thinks its a fun game to play.

[white knight]

Hi, welcome 

A few things to unpack there so I'll give it a try. A decision to separate is for you but abuse is a trauma that must stop. Period. Being put down alone with her or worse in front of others isnt acceptable. 

Your mental health needs nurturing atm. Tackling an undue dismissal claim will be still challenging even with experience and self administered. Im wondering what cost to your health it will inflict during this period of partner breakdown??

I have, in 1987, fought mini corruption at a local Government level for 10 months. It costs me dearly mentally and to family. I had to learn a lot, how to move on, how corruption is so wide spread its a given at every workplace etc. Not to suggest your case is at all comparable but as you weave through your life challenges you might take on too much.

Us men tend to believe we can handle things, at this time you're mentally stretched, please be aware of any need to seek some support through the mental health system beginning with a GP visit. 

Ive survived 3 long term relationships and now happily married for 13 years. My last relationship of 10 years was verbally and physically abusive with regular slapping and she was an alcoholic. The relationship before that 11 years long, my 1st wife, 2 kids, she was abusive with silence and laziness. Narcissistic methods. 

"Its ok to have the expectation of your partner to elevate you, nurture your feelings and have your back... when that has crumbled it rarely reinstates itself..."

Reply anytime.

TonyWK