Hello
I can see how upset you're about this. Maybe trying to get some clarity why exactly it is a big problem might help. Are you afraid that your husband might leave you? Would you like to be part of the conversation? Is it because your husband doesn't respect your wishes?
As much as some things can be very annoying to us, it can help to have a look at the big picture whether there are good things that might make up for the annoyances and might make the relationship worth it and focus on that.
I hope that this helped a little bit, please let us know how you're going whenever you feel like it or would like to talk more
