So lonely

[Gossamerose]

I'm feeling very confused and second guessing myself about everything.

I'm trying to get out of this toxic read everything something stops me or gets in my way.

Gee you would think in this day and age there would be more help for women trying to leave bad relationships but I can tell you from someone who has been going though this for over 22 years. There is no real help! 

And yes I'm sure someone can point me to this society and that! But they don't actually help you. It's all smoke and mirrors. No actual hard help.

[trackert]

I’m sorry this is happening to you I have no advice but happy to chat. 

[Sophie_M]

Hi Gossamerose,

We’re sorry to hear what you’ve been going through. It sounds like it’s had some very serious impacts on your wellbeing. We’re glad you could share this here, as our lovely community will have kindness, advice and understanding for you. 

It can be really tough finding support. While it sounds like you have looked around, if you or anyone else reading is interested, it could be useful to have a chat with one of the lovely people at 1800Respect to discuss your relationship. They're available on 1800 737 732, or you can reach them on online chat, here.  You could also speak to Relationships Australia on 1300 364 277.  
 
It sounds like it's really having an impact on how you're feeling day to day, so please know that there’s always someone here for you to talk it through with. The Beyond Blue counsellors are available 24/7 on 1300 22 4636 or online. It's really important to be kind to yourself through this, so there's some tips for practicing self-care here. 

Thanks again for sharing here. We’re sure you’ll hear from some other community members once they spot your thread. We appreciate your kindness and openness in sharing to the forums, and we hope you can be kind to yourself, too while you’re going through this extremely difficult time.  

Kind regards,  

Sophie M 

[Gossamerose]

Thank you Sophie, I appreciate your reply.