Porn Addicted Partner

[AnnieK]

I have just discovered my husband of 40 years has been addicted to porn for about 9 years. Can you imagine. This is a man I loved and adored.I am shocked, so devastated and am only managing my life day to day. I knew something was terribly wrong when intimacy stopped. I feel like a fool to believe all his excuses from work load, tired, prostate issues even the death of a family member. My life as I knew it has been destoyed. He gas started counselling and wants to be a better man. All help out there is for addicts ! Where is help for the spouses suffering such trauma. Please help me.

[Nikol]

My gosh your comments have literally expressed all I been feeling.

Not knowing how to even compose what I am even feeling I'm so lost in my thoughts and have signed up to this to work through this on my own.

As I too have snooped through my humans phone only to find a daily porn viewing I'm deviated heart broken that he needs this yet I was giving him plenty attention sometimes even the things he watches which then leaves me feeling like I'm only feeding his addition.

Feeling lost