NEED SOME ADVICE
You sound like a caring and emotionally available guy, which is really lovely. I’m so glad that you have found that spark after the troubles that you have had this year with the breakdown of your marriage and breakup of your subsequent relationship. It is an intoxicating feeling, that initial spark of chemistry, and can make us do crazy things. Realistically, it would be a wise idea to take things slowly as you are quite vulnerable right now after every thing has happened, particularly to getting hurt. If this new girl is also afraid of commitment and getting hurt, at least at the start, it may also help you to avoid scaring her off. However, I know how intoxicating things can feel right now and it’s a very difficult thing for most people to control. I have always found that people will do what they will in this situation and it will either work or it won’t, there’s no real way to predict it. So I wish you luck!