Hello Parto
That’s a tough situation. After 23 years of marriage it’s normal to feel anxious when your wife announces it’s over. You write that you accept that it’s over, but you want to make it right. I don’t quite follow you there but perhaps in a future post you could explain it a little better. Your wife seems to be happy for you to continue to talk the children so I’m assuming you have left the family home. Is that right?
Have you seen a health professional ? If you haven’t you may wish to consider it especially if have a history of depression. At times like this you’ll need all the support you can get and it is vital that you do your best to look after yourself.
You say you don’t know your bank account details. May I suggest you make a list of all the things you require to at least live independently and then approach your wife so you can work out the details. You may also think about seeing a solicitor to document and formalise your separation. They should also be able to give you advice about the children’s future and care arrangements.
I realise that emotionally you are suffering and you have my sympathy. Please respond to these pages if you feel like chatting.
