Dear Anonymous01012~
It sounds like your girlfriend is lucky to have such a caring and understanding person to be with her. I guess in this situation there are some things you can do to make her feel better, but some things she must do herself.
Not using social media in a way she might be uncomfortable with might be an option. I don't know how heavily you use it of course, however cutting back for a while might give her less to worry about.
Perhaps more importantly if there is a chance she is suffering from a condition - maybe anxiety or depression - then encouraging her to seek medical help would seem pretty sensible. As someone with anxiety and depression conditions myself it was the way I improved.
Encouraging her to do things that give her satisfaction and a sense of accomplish would also seem in order. Do you have any ideas along these lines?
What may appear as laziness is not always the case. I would have appeared that way when depression had taken hold. When I improved I had the energy and inclination to do the things I'd stopped doing before.
All these things are helpful, however it is really up to your girlfriend to see her doctor, say how she feels every day, and ask to be diagnosed. Then if any treatment is recommended to take it up wholeheartedly.
I hope you come back and discuss this again, it can be a difficult situation
Croix
