We are both still in love with each other, bedroom time fun is nearly every night unless she is away. But I do come across as more needy than her. And I am very supportive of her new friends but am finding it hard going from dropping everything to be there and help her and manage all home affairs, debts, cooking etc, I used to come straight home from work to be there for her. Now I just feel so lost, constant chest pains, sick. I don't know how to find a life after 16yrs really caring for her and now her needing space and other friends. We were away the other weekend at her sons bday party. We both went to bed early, but I stayed up to read, I borrowed her phone to use the torch feature but this friend of hers had messaged. I couldn't help but open it, as I was reading through I found they had sent inappropriate photos to one another. I was a mess. I opened up to her and yes she was mad but also so sorry as she was drunk at the time when she was flirting. She said she needed other people to see and find her attractive like I do. She thinks she is ugly. How do I not worry about that too. She is my best friend, my only friend
