Help to escape

miniforever

I need help to escape an abusive relationship.

it’s mostly a controlling and fear based situation. He has assaulted me a few times but he denied having done it.

i am scared as he’s unpredictable.

he doesn’t believe he’s done anything wrong.

he actually believes he’s the victim.

What should I do. Where can I go?

how do I leave. I have no where to go. I tried to get help when he assaulted me last year but I chickened out of it fearing what would happen to my kids.

help I don’t know what I should do.

sorry I’m rambling. I’m scared and can’t sleep.

Sophie_M

Hey miniforever,

Welcome back. We’re really glad you have been able to reach out again. What you are going through sounds incredibly distressing and we are here to support you.

The decision to leave is a hugely courageous decision to make. No one deserves to be in an abusive relationship. It can feel like there is a lot of uncertainty and fear for what’s next and we hope that we can outline some options for you here.

Where do I go?

AskIzzy has a helpful search tool that allows you to find emergency accommodation near you for people escaping domestic and family violence
DVConnect has some helpful information about women’s shelters and what to expect. They also have a 24/7 domestic violence helpline: 1800 811 811

Extra support

1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) A 24/7 counselling line for anyone who has experienced, or is at risk of, family and domestic violence and/or sexual assault. They also have a service directly with a range of support options.

If you or your children are ever in immediate danger, the number to call is 000.

We want to reiterate what a brave decision this is to make. You absolutely deserve to feel safe and respected and this is a crucial step towards this. Please do not hesitate to reach out to any of the above services. You don’t have to go through this alone. We’re here to support you as a community, too.

Take good care of yourself, miniforever 💙

Kind regards
Sophie M