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[Guest_70157676]

I have just had some really bad couple of days at school and people r mad at me and I just got ignored yesterday and I know I was in the wrong but like I don’t know how to fix it and I’ve tried to say sorry but everyones just upset with me and i feel like I’m making it worse by avoiding them but I hate being in trouble and I don’t know what else to do and I should feel worse but I feel like they have overreacted for what happened but I also feel like I’m under reacting to what I did and I just can’t stop crying cause I showed people a video of us dancing and I loved the video and thought it was funny but the others didn’t like it and said let’s not show it to other people cause a friend was really uncomfortable cause she can’t dance and I showed the video but not the full thing I just wanted to show my dancing and cause we were all sharing stuff but I didn’t  think it was such a big deal but now they are all upset at me and ignoring me and I don’t know what to do I have said sorry and apologised multiple times but they are all still ignoring me and have been been really depressed recently and this made it worse 

[KAF12]

I am so sorry you are going through this. School life is tough - please know it does get better. 

I feel compelled to reply to you as I know how school can be. Please know that you have done the right thing by apologising but if they continue to ignore you then that just shows what kind of people they are. Do you see any of these friends outside of school? Can you arrange to meet up with one of them over the weekend to tell them how you really feel? Have you got friends outside of your general friend group? if so, speak to them, see the kindness they have and take that on board. We all make mistakes and we learn from them. Sometimes, we just need to see who our true friends are. Be strong - believe in yourself and know you did the right thing. Surround yourself with kind people who are willing to support you.