Feeling stuck

Jasper
Community Member

Last year, something happened between myself and a friend (whom I had feelings for) that led me to believe they felt the same. It was after three weeks of this that I found it basically meant nothing to them. I spent eight months blaming myself, saying I shouldn’t have read into things or gotten my hopes up, but I’ve realised that it’s not completely my fault. They shouldn’t have switched up like that after two years of things being normal, and they should’ve told me how they felt sooner without needing me to prompt them. I’ve just been so angry since. As guilty as it makes me feel, I think I need to cut ties with them. I know the mature thing to do would be to have a conversation about it, but the thought of that is sickening. I just can’t. Basically, I need an honest opinion of if it’s really shitty of me to cut ties.

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Guest_10490
Community Member

Sometimes you need to walk away and think about you and your feelings first. Then after you are in a better place to deal with it and if it's needed have a conversation 🙂 hope this helps