Emotional distant Husband left

[Guest_57350828]

My husband told me he cared about me but didn't love me any more and left the next day. Me and our 3 girls.

I have tried to write this a million times and everytime I try there are so many issues that it just makes me think how did we not leave each other yrs ago. 

We love each other. I know that but I dont feel loved or support let alone a priority. 

Think, crossing boundaries, drinking issues, mental issues from childhood trauma. 

It's a really long story. But I'm not sure what to do. 

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[TrueSeeker]

I'm so sorry that this happened to you. You're going through the hardest part of it at this moment. It is hard and I think that sometimes we just need to focus on getting through the day and hoping that tomorrow we'll feel better.

Please take care of yourself and give yourself time to heal, I hope that things will get better for you

[Dee2024]

It may be for the best. I stayed in an unhappy relationship, in unhealthy circumstances for much too long thinking I was doing best for my kids. In the long run I am sure this triggered my mental health issues.

Give yourself time to heal and focus on that and your girls. You are now free to create something better for yourself.

Baby steps, one at a time.

May your new life be blessed with new opportunities.