Drugs

[Yeah_]

My partner is 36 and I’m 29 

we have had a lot of arguments and it’s mostly about money 

he smokes cannabis and cigarettes and he is constantly asking me for money for both of them, he always says he will pay me back but he never does 

And I’ve now put my foot down and said no absolutely not I will no longer be doing it anymore no matter the amount, but he constantly gets angry at me when I say no, he always says that he does so much for me and the kids and I never give him anything in return. 
mind you he is jobless and I pay for mostly everything 

I'm at a point where I just want to leave. 
I keep telling him that it is not my responsibility to pay for his habits but he just doesn’t listen 

I'm just not sure what to do anymore because I'm so tired of the arguments 

he’s also been pawning things around the house to make the money for drugs 

[Ggrand]

Hello Dear Yeah,

I read in another thread of yours that you have children…I think you must try to consider if having a partner, unemployed and on drugs is an environment that you want your beautiful children to be raised in…

I think him asking you for money to feed his unhealthy habits is bad enough, shows he doesn’t respect all the hard work you’re doing by paying for all the bills…but to virtually steal your things and pawn them…is a criminal offence…that is if you haven’t giving him permission to do that…maybe he needs a wake up call, if you find he has pawn something of yours and know where he has done it…then take the police with you to recover your goods and have him arrested….Yes, I know that would be hard to do, but setting boundaries and refusing him money doesn’t seem to work…maybe tough love will….

In my eyes, you’re doing everything for him ie:- feeding him, clothing him, washing his dirty clothes etc….what’s he doing for you?…

Please, do take good care of you…

Thinking of you sweetheart with care and kind thoughts…

Grandy..

[Yeah_]

So the kids and I left him, because of family violence 

we are now homeless and I honestly don’t know what to do.

Being homeless with three kids if extremely stressful and I feel like I can’t do this.
the wait list for government housing is 12 months and I can’t wait this long because I’m also pregnant

I'm going to have a breakdown 

and I feel like squatting is my only option at this point