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Stalker threatened to call cops

jjac
Community Member

So i was using a different forum to talk about depression and other more serious issues.

A guy private messaged me, as a support, eventually started making comments about wanting a relationship. I declined and blocked him. He found me on a different profile. I blocked him again. He managed this a few times. Then he started messaging me screenshots of my posts, talking about serious issues. Then said he was going to use my IP address and email the police (he's overseas) telling them to come to my house. As he's "worried" about me. And "cares"

I am horrified. He has actual evidence I am depressed, I deleted my profile but he still has the proof.

I've calmed down quite a bit, and he's definitely blocked for good. He can't find me now.

But I hear a noise and I jump, worrying that the cops are here to punish me. Should I tell the truth? Lie? I'm not at risk. I promise you all that. I am not going to do anything. I am just depressed.

I hope he was lying to me about being able to find my details.

What will the police do??? Am I insane for worrying about this???

2 Replies 2

jjac
Community Member

I've called the police and if anything happens I'll go via them.

i shouldn't have posted here.

james1
Community Champion
Community Champion

hi jjac,

I'm glad you have called the police. It sounds like a very scary incident.

It's always really important to remember to stay safe when you are online and you have done the best thing by blocking him and calling the police.

It may be a good idea to notify the moderators on the other website as well.

James