Seperated from narcisstic husband and he took off with my boys last week 😭😭😭

[Mammalovehard]

Hi just needed to let it out as i have been so broken and crying everday since mu ex took off and took the boys 😭

[Sophie_M]

Dear Mammalovehard,

This is a powerfully honest post and we thank you for getting it out with us and this community. 

These situations are always incredibly hard, tangled and in many ways frightening, and we want you to know you are not alone in those feelings an experiences.  We would like to remind you that you can reach out to us 24 hours a day - please call 1300 22 4636.  We also wanted to make sure that you have access to any legal or social supports and advice you might need in this situation. Your local Women's Health Centre could be an excellent start, as could Relationships Australia - Please give them a try on 1300 364 277. Family law specialists through your local LegalAid could also be worthwhile, so please google them, and there are quite a few more we could mention, but almost too many for this post, please do consider giving us a call! In the meantime, I know there are many in this forum, especially our Community Champions who will want to reach out to you soon. Please hang in there! Remember to reach out at anytime!

Regards,

Sophie M.

[Mammalovehard]

Thankyou Sophie.

it was hard to even be brave and stand up and say enough is enough! After 8 years i said to my husband i want out im done with all the abuse.

he moved out then a month later took of with my 2 young boys without my consent… i havent heard from my boys for almost a month….

sooooo broken and so worried

[mmMekitty]

Hi & welcome, Mammalovehard,

This is surely an awful situation. If you think your children are in any danger, this is definitely a reason to call the police.

Even if you think they will be safe with him, I still think taking them as he still has no legal right to do that, so I would advise calling the police.

In any event, the safety of the children must be verified, & I think, having them returned to their home is vital. So, please, take up advice from Sophie_M,

& be sure to care for yourself, so you can be there for them, whether they are home with you or not. This is going to be a very difficult time for you, & you've got to have support, & to be stronger than you've ever been before. I'm really sorry you are going to have to go through this.

All my best,

mmMekitty