Is my mum a narcissist?

24yearoldgirl
Community Member

I have been caring for my mum since 2010, when she had a head injury..

the past few years we have been living in a tent.. she drove up and down and all around the country like a physcopath. It damaged me big time. But I never left.

It was the night before my birthday, and she grabbed my wrist and said she felt like hitting me because I wouldn’t shut up. She thinks it’s not abusive.

I am now going to court to defend her from her dvo.

she complains that her life is ruined, but I’m 24 and have not had a single friend or dad or any family at all apart from her.. I’ve been completely isolated..

she grew up in a Dysfunctional family and has no social life.

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Guest_1643
Blue Voices Member
if she assaulted you, tht's not your fault. That's like saying its someone's fault if they are crossing a road and a car speeds up against the lights, god forbid, bumping them. It's not your fault in any way. But this is very very hard to see at the time

Hi everyone,

im sorry I’ve been offline lately.. I appreciate all your comments and advice.

i probably won’t be posting so much, as I now have a local DV councillor, and she’s going to be at court this week..

Take care everyone, and I’ll remember to call that 1800 number if need be

Kind regards