dear Melly, I am pleased that Jacko and Lauren have replied to you, as your situation isintangible, meaning that your situation has to definitely be changed.
His addiction to weed doesn't seem to suit him and certainly no benefit to you, and what ever else he maybe taking which he could hide from you.
He has an obsession about you and doesn't want you to have any contact with any other people, well first of all this is not possible, and when he retaliates, calls you names and then becomes abusive is not what you need in life, because it will only get worse over time, but this is not going to happen because you have to move out, block his mobile number as well as his parents phone number, or if necessary get a new sim card, because what may happen is that he plus his parents may try and ring you and this isn't what you want.
You mention October and is this because the lease runs out, but it's too far away, your safety is so much more important than anything else at the moment.
Your only young but this current relationship is destroying your ego, confidence and self esteem, so what I would like you to do is to make up your mind what in the house/flat you want to take, and then organise someone to pick these items up when your boyfriend is not at home in his daily chores, or if you like just leave everything.
I always mention Anglicare when people are in financial trouble, or need counselling or require accommodation, as they do all of these, plus you can contact the BB phone number who will also help you, but everything has to be sorted out before you move, but you don't have much time and please don't procrastinate.
I am so pleased that you come to this site, and sorry I didn't welcome you to the site, but please we want you to get back to us. L Geoff. x
