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Hi AnxiousMaiden,
Welcome to the forums and thank you for being here. I'm sorry that you went through that as a little girl and hearing how much it's impacted you even now at night.
I applaud you for seeing a counsellor to work through this; can I ask what it is you're working on together? Or even what therapy technique she is using (if you know that)? I believe that therapy really is the way through, but it often comes down to finding the right person. Knowing how long you've felt unsafe, it can often feel like a slow process.
I want you to know that you can feel safe at night again. While there's the little girl inside of you that's scared, you can learn that she doesn't have to be scared anymore and the 33 year old you can protect her now.
RT
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Hi Anxious Maiden
I agree with RT about the little girl inside of you. I would ask your therapist if he/she could commence some inner child therapy. It's too long a story to tell now, but I was once fortunate to have a unique experience with my inner child and it changed my life forever! She is in my care and I do everything i can to love and protect her.
You could also write to your inner child, acknowledging what she went through, validate who she was, sharing you inner most thoughts with her. Visualise your precious little girl,bring her to the fore and take her to bed with you at night and let her know that you no longer feel fear, let her know that you are strong and confident and that both of you can sleep soundly. It may take a little while to get to this stage but if you believe it will happen.
With the kindest of thoughts
CKS