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What's suicide in your language?

Donte
Community Member

Many people from various cultural groups do not talk about suicide. It is commonly believed that if we mention the word suicide we will give ideas to people who may be vulnerable and they may start considering taking their own lives. Many religious families and groups won't disclose when a member commits suicide out of shame, guilt, fear and embarrassment as many religions claims that taking one's life is sinful and the person who commits suicide will go to eternal damnation. In many cultures, priests and religious leaders refuse to bury people inside the cemetery walls if the deceased had taken their own life. Many grow up in a culture of stigma perpetuated by religious dogma. So how do we start this difficult conversation with people to help them with managing negative feelings, and initiate steps to making positive changes? Especially when no one community is the same and there is great diversity within each culture and their subcultures and groups within them.Before starting the conversation we would need to understand the risks factors and vulnerabilities to suicide, fear and stigma associated with mental health problems, varying traditions when discussing sensitive subjects and concerns around confidentiality.The migration process can be challenging for many as it involves considerable changes to physical, social, cultural and economic environments. If someone has escaped war, or being a victim of trauma or torture, their levels of stress may be higher and may greatly impact on the development of suicidal behavior. The process of change experienced when living in a new country has been linked to stress and emotional problems including anxiety, depression, and feelings of isolation, alienation and low self-esteem. Additionally, experiencing racism and discrimination upon arrival to a new country may lead to further isolation and withdrawal which could exacerbate mental health issues. Many things can stop people from seeking help including language barriers, limited knowledge about available services and resources and how to navigate these, stigma, religious beliefs and concerns about confidentiality, especially in certain communities when everyone knows everybody. So what's suicide in your language? How do you start this difficult chat with someone? And where do you go for help? Would the same things that applied back in your country at the time of your migration be relevant here? Let's talk suicide, shall we?

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Sophie_M
Moderator
Moderator
We don't often have conversations about suicide outside of the Suicidal Thoughts and Self-Harm board so if you do read anything here that triggers or distresses you, please reach out for support:

Suicide Call Back Service - 1300 659 467
Lifeline - 13 11 14

If you have lost a loved one to suicide and need some support managing your grief, we have some resources to help you on the beyondblue website.

If you want to share your own experiences with suicidal thoughts, we encourage you to create a new post here instead, to allow the community to better support you. 

demonblaster
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Yip Hi, well said Donte 🙂
I believe we're smart enough to figure out how to work through depression
Excellent places like here where people are talking, learning & much wisdom without being hassled makes such a diference helping so many. Amazing site

How well you've put your points across without judge or anger, gently spoken with opening for discussion.

Thankyou





Donte
Community Member

Thank you Sophie for providing these numbers,

This is great and very useful information if people need to access supports and talk to someone.

Much appreciate it. 🙂

Thank you demonblaster,

I thought it would be important to talk about a subject that is taboo in many groups and amongst most communities and hope that instigating discussion we can break down the stigma and myths associated with suicide. 🙂

demonblaster
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Bbl donte want to talk with you about this

Donte Where I'm at here is working on how to work out how to deal with depression which affects wayyyy tooo many people & as we know easily deepens to bad choices.

The best place for us to talk is if you want to in Suicide section put up a thread there and if you let me know here name of I'll jump in because as you're saying I too believe with discussion from many on all aspects we can work something out.

I also work from "Suicide ...why not?" if you're interested in posting in there too, I'm getting & hoping to get as much variation on situations and problems we're up against for more understanding & potential help for people. No probs if you don't go to them, I'll definitely be talking to you more.
Also have a "Understanding depression ...to beat it" thread in Depression which I haven't updated much lately, bit of a spanner thrown in but just gotta work out how best to go about it.

So for the suicide part as Sophie said to avoid triggers for others here there's trigger warnings on that section.

Meant what I said about how you spoke and bought up many valid important points. Good on you

Hi demonblaster,

There has been some great and helpful information about this topic posted here but i think it's important to be mindful that although there is another section dedicated to this topic, Multicultural experiences forum may also touch upon this topic. As Donte' said, there are many views specifically in cultures and subcultures and in multicultural communities these can be particularly complicated especially given the homeland trauma and migration experiences that may trigger compromised wellbeing for some people.

I think it is most important to be able to provide support here about this sensitive topic to people from multicultural communities, we must consider that they may not contribute to the other conversations on the other sections and it is helpful from them to know that there is support here too.

demonblaster
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Yip no problem Hayfa, thanks 🙂

Donte
Community Member

Hi Hayfa,

That's what I was thinking too when started this thread. Some people of culturally and linguistically diverse backgrounds may only visit the 'Multicultural Experiences' section or click here first, so it seemed to me like something of benefit to have reference in this forum on the topic of suicide and non-English speaking communities. Happy to share elsewhere too though if it's appropriate. 🙂