- Beyond Blue Forums
- People like me
- Multicultural experiences
- i want dde helps
- Subscribe to RSS Feed
- Mark Topic as New
- Mark Topic as Read
- Pin this Topic for Current User
- Follow
- Printer Friendly Page
i want dde helps
- Mark as New
- Follow Post
- Mute
- Subscribe to RSS Feed
- Permalink
- Report Post
Ever since the second grade kids have been teasing me and I always seem to be the victim of bullying.
The type of bullying is teasing, as kids always seem to tease me due to my race, as an indian I have to get a+ or better as it seems to other people to be defined as relevant.
However, the main bullying comes is from people who say "Oi, cab driver" or since I work at 711 "can I have a Slurpee". Also in my religion it permits me to not use any deodorant, and even through this I think I smell better than anyone yet I always get teased for smelling, this brings me to my last point which is getting teased due to my size of my genitals which I often get teased for. I don't know how to deal with the bullys please help!
- Mark as New
- Follow Post
- Mute
- Subscribe to RSS Feed
- Permalink
- Report Post
Hi 6ix9ine,
I hope you don’t mind if I extend a caring welcome to you to the forums.
Bullying and racism is definitely not okay at all. I feel it’s extremely hurtful and eats at a person’s self esteem and sense of identity. I feel your pain in your words...
I also have some Asian heritage so your post, in particular, really struck a chord with me. I have also been bullied because of racism...
I wonder if there’s anyone you can reach out to for further support/report the bullies’ behaviour e.g. a counsellor/student welfare if it’s happening in an educational setting, report it to your workplace, health and safety authority for advice or if you know these people socially, consider cutting off contact with them.
Sorry, as I don’t know the details, I can only make very general suggestions.
Please know you’re always most welcome to talk here as there will be kind people who want to support you. I admire your bravery in opening up and sharing...
Caring thoughts,
Pepper
- Mark as New
- Follow Post
- Mute
- Subscribe to RSS Feed
- Permalink
- Report Post
Hi 6ix9ine,
I wrote a post that I’m not sure if I’ve accidentally deleted (I sometimes do that). I’ll wait and see but in any case, in the mean time, I just wanted to let you know that you’re heard and that I feel for your struggles and pressure. I really do...
- Pepper
- Mark as New
- Follow Post
- Mute
- Subscribe to RSS Feed
- Permalink
- Report Post
Hi 6ix9ine,
Thank you for sharing your story in this forum. Bullying is a terrible thing no matter what form it may take. It’s a shame you’ve been victimized for your ethnic background and your looks and beliefs. The world can be a very cruel place at times.
As a gay man I often been called horrific names and people have wished me I get bashed or die of AIDS. I know how being harassed feels. People are the worst animals on earth.
Hope you find support and a group that accept you and embrace you for who you are. As for the rest, they’re insignificant really. I tend to look the other way and carry on. Treat them as non-existent. Don’t fall to their pathetic level.
Kindest Regards
- Anxiety
- BB Social Zone
- Depression
- Grief and loss
- Multicultural experiences
- PTSD and trauma
- Relationship and family issues
- Sexuality and gender identity
- Staying well
- Suicidal thoughts and self-harm
- Supporting family and friends
- Treatments, health professionals, therapies
- Welcome and orientation
- Young people