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relationship breakup

awrinkle_in_time
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Hi , i was in a relationship the first after a divorce of a 20 year marriage , i didn't think i would find love again , i meet this lady through some good friends and we started slow seeing each other on weekends , we lived 2 hrs apart .. we found comfort in each other and the time we spent together was the best time i have ever spent with a women , i could watch the grass grow for ever in her company . as time went on the baggage in both our lives came out and instead of dealing with it we just broke up .. she was scared and so was i .. the going our own ways happened so suddenly and i couldn't believe it happened ...approx 10months ago ... we had little contact and got on with our lives ..i whole time feeling very sad i felt a massive loss .. honestly thought we wold spend our lives together .. i speak of the good times now but there were times that her baggage came out and with out an open communication at these times it would be impossible to have a lasting relationship ...no such communication was possible ... and i know us being apart is better ..but i am still so in love with her ...i messaged her a few days ago and showed her pictures of my apartment which i have renovated ..the finished product ..she didn't reply ..i messaged my feelings and she replied with i think you should move on like i have ..i asked her if she was seeing anyone and she said yes ...i had to get myself home and i vomited many times and just put myself to bed ..i am reliving the weekends i said with her and seeing another guy in her life exactly like i was ...i try to reflect to the times that help me understand that it wouldn't have worked between us but my heart is so full of love for her .. its painful and i can't stop crying
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Heello Heello Heello Had a really good day 🙂

Am okay door came of worse ...am on call this week , just got hm big day ...was good though ...i was the big boss today ...had to make decisions and stuff ....

Yes for sure the product of who you hang with ...i seeing that clearly ...small doses are good ... i recon an hour is heaps with some people ...thats terrible .... I am reading your thread ...You have a real beauty that comes through in your words and lots have commented ....Well done in sharing and moving forward ...

Good one ....Im still standing ...

Oudios Omego ...

And heellooo back lovely beautiful man.... The boss man! I don't think the door will mess with u again.lol.

Good Morning , Your complements make my day , Thanks

The sun is out today ...Might be a nice weekend ...

Have A Ripper Day Magic Lady x

ps, Things are going good ... 🙂

Hi,

I knew things would be good again. Just came back from a bike ride- tyre popped....only 3 rd time I've taken the bike out grrrr, got some sunshine. And now I'm going to do more assignment then going out to dinner for brothers bday. Hope u enjoyed the sunshine! 🙂 and have a fab weekend! Or working weekend, movie weekend...whatever u decide to do 🙂

Hi , Yes having a working weekend on call , have been busy most of the day , just got in ....got a movie and the heater on 🙂

Have been really mindful today ( buzz word ) of what im thinking about Monkey ....seeing my thoughts ....Has been really good ...not reacting just watching ....just seeing ....There might be hope for me yet ha ha ....

So you had a bike ride ...sending you every compliment i can think of ....to many to write 🙂 ...

and got a flat tyre ...thats no good ...Good to get out in the sun thats the best ....its real cool hear but nice in the sun when its out ....short days hey ...Enjoy your dinner and spoil your bro ...What are you going to order ? ...

Get a bit more of the assignment done... good job ....another A plus coming up ....Hope your weekend is also Fab

Keep Smiling X

Hi mindful man,

The dinner was fit for a king haha, it was all you can eat. My grandmother ended up paying for everybody. Other times my mum has payed for us all- I have a generous family! I had oysters with lemon, salmon,prawn cocktails, pork with crackling,salads,passion fruit tart, cream, chocolate baklava,custard profita rolls fruit and more. It was a struggle....lol...

There was a wait for the oysters. Had to line up to collect them from the sushi train. Ppl were stacking their plates....oyster brains lol!

I put my human hair clip in hair extensions in, got dolled up and looked like a different woman- love getting dressed up.

Beautiful sunny day here...again.

Of course there is hope for you. Well more than hope for you. You sound like you're getting on top of your thoughts. Good on you.

All those compliments made me week at the knees...now I'm glowing from the inside out haha....shine bright like a diamond...

Compliment- your heart shines through in your writing.

You keep smiling too 🙂

Back to assignment....

Shine Bright Like A DiaMOND .....Its a great song ....Love it .... Makes me smile ...

I bet you looked beautiful all dressed up ... Thats lovely you got to have a meal with your family ...did you brother have a birthday cake ?

Thats a great feed you had ..those all you can eat places are sooo good ... I have a slight weekness for the desert trolly .....

The compliments are nice ....Thank you ...Thank you ... Glad your shinning on the inside and out as well ....

Makes you happy hey.... and when your happy you can see clearly .... 🙂

Ive been busy with work today ...lots of call outs ... i have enjoyed it ...

hope you study goes well ....and you have a nice night My Friend .... X

Being Mindful i am ....trying ... 🙂

Good Morning , Just saying Hi ...Hope your doin well ....All Good My Hood ...

Have a nice weekend X

Hi,

Thanx for hoping I'm doing well & wishing me a nice weekend. Same to you x

I've made some changes. Decided I want to make more money so I quit my studies. I proved that I can complete assignments on time and pass everything. So, I might end up doing 4 yrs at uni later down the track but right now I want to make money. Work is still slow so I've been looking for other jobs. That's my news.

Beautiful sunny day outside, going to go for a walk laterz.

Hi , I have the day off today , lucky me...

Your awesome ... alway thinking of things to do ..

Good luck with the job hunting hope you find something that you enjoy as well as the big bucks ..

im sure you will 🙂 ....Nice day as well ...cold at night ....really cold ...

Enjoy your walk and the sunshine