Surrender pet aftermath

[Rach28]

Hi everyone. I'm really struggling a month after surrendering my pet. Today I found out he's with a foster carer and up for adoption. My heart is literally broken once again. Has anyone else had to make the heartbreaking decision to surrender your pet/best friend and are you struggling with the news that your pet is being cared for by someone else and will get a new mum soon. 

I just so badly miss being his mum beyond words. I miss it every single day... I should be the one caring for him. And I'm not... it's unfair..

[Rach28]

I'm remembering to be kind to myself. Lots of self care days. It's still hard but in trying to remember to breathe everyday. 

[Sornam]

Hi Rach, yes I surrendered my little dog just 4 days ago. I did it after being quite stressed with his separation anxiety and not being able to go out. Now my reasons seem so stupid. I rand to try and get him back but the rescue said no. I have been shattered and not able to get out of bed and today I saw that he is adopted. I cannot begin to say how terrible I feel. I understand what you are going through and don't know how long it will be before I recover. It seems like I will never be the same again. My heartfelt feelings for you.